OMG! Maybe I should go over there and tell that wench that I have triplets and have a problem with the post. Maybe I should say ‘anyone who has one kid has no room to complain about being busy’ (note: I don’t believe this but you know it would piss them all off and Kristy off, I had pretty easy triplets but see I can acknowledge and appreciate that despite going from one to three I had it relatively easy).Ellreb wrote: ↑Sun Mar 21, 2021 10:35 am
I mean some of the replies to her. “Anyone who had a problem with your posts clearly has never had a newborn”. Well actually I have, and I’m currently trying to make a second, so maybe, just maybe Kristi doesn’t speak for every new ‘real and raw’ mother out there.
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Blossom wrote: ↑Sun Mar 21, 2021 11:25 amOMG! Maybe I should go over there and tell that wench that I have triplets and have a problem with the post. Maybe I should say ‘anyone who has one kid has no room to complain about being busy’ (note: I don’t believe this but you know it would piss them all off and Kristy off, I had pretty easy triplets but see I can acknowledge and appreciate that despite going from one to three I had it relatively easy).Ellreb wrote: ↑Sun Mar 21, 2021 10:35 am
I mean some of the replies to her. “Anyone who had a problem with your posts clearly has never had a newborn”. Well actually I have, and I’m currently trying to make a second, so maybe, just maybe Kristi doesn’t speak for every new ‘real and raw’ mother out there.
Lmao! I’m dying to comment too. But I’m holding back because I know I’ll get absolutely destroyed by her stans and I just don’t have the energy for it.
Triplets! My god. And here she is complaining about having one.
It’s like she doesn’t want to admit that being a parent isn’t always hard, because saying ‘wow, my son was so good today’ won’t get her anywhere near as much sympathy and compliments from her followers. There’s nothing wrong with sharing the real, difficult side of motherhood. The issue with Kristi is that she doesn’t ever share the good parts. All I see from her is how hard it is, how much of a burden her son is, and that’s not realistic either! It’s so toxic and off-putting to anyone out there who may be considering having a child, not to mention completely insulting to those who already have kids or may be struggling to conceive.
I genuinely don’t think she likes being a mother. I think she was so wrapped up in wanting to be pregnant and have 9 months of pure attention with maternity photoshoots and being able to pat her stomach and have people cooing over her, that she never actually thought about what happens after the baby arrives. What we’re witnessing is the absolute meltdown of a woman who can’t cope with no longer being the center of attention and is too lazy to put in the work required to look after a baby.
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exactly, if there was a 'group chat text thread' in existence she'd use it? I remember years ago she posted a chatty GRWM (lol when does she do any other type of video?) but the subject of this one was she was insecure about her lack of close friendships, which I think is revealing to where she is now... she is using the people who ALREADY pay her bills (by watching her vids and buying her ugly makeup collabs) to constantly validate her every thought / experience , give her medical advice when she demands it... she's basically using her fan base as emotional dumping ground.Done Stanning wrote: ↑Sat Mar 20, 2021 2:34 pmI think her problem is not having close friends. Because if she had close friends then why wouldn’t she... go to them... discuss it in their text thread? I bet you she doesn’t work on her friendships so she has nobody to lean on when she needs them... she strikes me as one of those people who ONLY spends time with her husband and now baby. I personally don’t consider that to be at all healthy and no wonder she feels alone, motherhood can be isolating enough but she chose to move to the middle of nowhere, despite having a job that’s entirely from home so she already had little socialisation in her daily life. No matter what she says about her Hello Cash diet, we can see she’s not eating healthily because if she was eating well alongside breastfeeding she would have actually lost weight. All of these things make a person feel crap and then she has the NERVE to self diagnose PPD after like 2 days of having her child and then get a. SPONSOR FOR THE FUCKING VIDEO talking about it. Mental health is not for sale. Seriously fuck this bitch and everything she stands for, PPD kills... shes an asshole making money off of something very real and terrifying. I hope she gets so block happy that she ends up with no followers.
it just feels inherently exploitive of her, to me. she's been on the internet a long time and has really stoked the flames of the parasocial relationship, so she gets all this kindness and empathy thrown her way every waking hour but she never has to reciprocate that or show any kindness in return. the people who are already funding her lifestyle now are giving her free therapy. she lives in an echo chamber that she's made for herself, where even her most problematic and harmful shit can't be called out on because it's 'mom shaming', according to her insane supporters.
she seems to believe if you are not miserable 100% of the time you are not a worthy parent. she never says a single positive thing about being a mom / her son. I genuinely think she hates being a parent and only wanted people to ooh and ahh over her for 9 months as a pregnant mama bear warrior. not showering for a week + at a time is not normal, she's making herself into a mommy martyr. plus all the backhanded compliments about like "idk how other moms manage to put on makeup when its sooooo hard" is such sanctimonious bullshit. she thinks she's a superior parent because she's unwashed and miserable every single moment.
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Also, did anyone else notice how she started talking about PPD while still pregnant? As if she was always planning to make PPD/PPA part of her ‘story’. The baby was literally 2 days old and she was already diagnosing herself with it. Just find it strange and hard to believe she was doing so much research on PPD before her baby was even born and then bam, child pops out and she’s immediately ‘suffering’.
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yeah, she was 100% planning her next stage of misery in advance to get all the sweet sympathy clicks.Ellreb wrote: ↑Sun Mar 21, 2021 5:38 pmAlso, did anyone else notice how she started talking about PPD while still pregnant? As if she was always planning to make PPD/PPA part of her ‘story’. The baby was literally 2 days old and she was already diagnosing herself with it. Just find it strange and hard to believe she was doing so much research on PPD before her baby was even born and then bam, child pops out and she’s immediately ‘suffering’.
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dude! so many of them do it. it's becoming a fad to have PPD/PPA now.Ellreb wrote: ↑Sun Mar 21, 2021 5:38 pmAlso, did anyone else notice how she started talking about PPD while still pregnant? As if she was always planning to make PPD/PPA part of her ‘story’. The baby was literally 2 days old and she was already diagnosing herself with it. Just find it strange and hard to believe she was doing so much research on PPD before her baby was even born and then bam, child pops out and she’s immediately ‘suffering’.
and you cannot self diagnose this before the damn child, as that just gets the ideas in your head. she's a damn hypochondriac.
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I feel so bad for that poor child... that half his gene pool consists of.... This
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Is anyone else confused how she has time to go on long nature walks alone but doesn't have time to shower or do her job of making a video?
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i would bet my rent that she is outside long enough to make the quick 30sec video and then runs back inside to coddle that poor baby
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My guess goes to the infertility struggles & birthing a child pretty much right to term. I mentioned this before, but if a mother is 30+ yrs old, she is considered pre-geriatric by most doctors. There can be complications & difficult labor because a woman’s body may not be as stretchy & malleable or produce the same level of natural hormones as opposed to when we start ovulating in our teens.
Kristi’s story is pretty miraculous when it’s summed up as “I always wanted to be a mom, I was told I was infertile, I gave up & then, BAM at 31 I’m pregnant”.
Add to that doing pregnancy during a pandemic, I give a lot of credit to women who gave birth in the past year.
However, you know, there’s been enough discussion on here how Kristi held so tight to that woo-woo ‘natural’ birth plan that caused more issues than there needed to be & her essentially milking (no pun intended) the ‘new mommy experiences’ for social media views.
Marie might be a little too positive (in life or social media) to call out Kristi for (IMO) being woefully unprepared for brith & motherhood. Marie has gone through some struggles with loss, extreme symptoms & her kids having health issues & is expecting a 4th child right now, so maybe she was just giving Kristi a kind word because she clearly has been seeking only positive validation.
I hope Kristi gets some perspective from her little mommy circle of friends about how while PPD is real & challenging, eventually you have to get help. Also, the newborn stage isn’t even the most difficult time of early life stages. Especially if your baby is healthy.
Like, what’s the moratorium on saying it’s PPD? Why do I feel like Kristi is going to be sending her kid off to kindergarten & we’re going to get a “BabyRawBeauty off the school/dealing with my PPD/ GRWM Q+A” video??
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I kind of feel like I can't comment because I'm not a mom nor at this point will ever be one. But Kristi is struggling, obviously. She imo needs to bottle feed because meds would benefit her. While I understand that breastfeeding is natural, preferred, and best for the baby, sometimes you HAVE to go with formula and there isn't anything wrong with that. I just hope she comes to be in a better place because right now it doesn't seem like she's enjoying motherhood too much.
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So that means Kristi is an overly sensitive princess? Someone needs a refresher on their fairy tales, cause I don't think this is the message he really wants to send.
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She deleted the twitter app from her phone because "is bad for her mental health"; this woman is so full of shit, what she really wanted to say was: "people are starting to call me out about using my stans as emotional dumps and tweeting insensitive things as well as being a condescending ass so i deleted it because i'm a fragile princess and can't stand anything other than ass kissing and praise from strangers".
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That Twitter post was the one that made me unfollow her. It's just too much.niclee0217 wrote:I don’t know what else to say about this other than that she’s the worst. Like we fucking get it. But you will not make me, a child free but hard working woman, feel bad for feeling like there aren’t enough hours in the day. Unfollowing. (Hope I did this alright, I’m still new lol)
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I think a lesson that could be really useful for Kristi to learn is that emotions are universal. Just because someone may not have gone through the exact same thing as you almost everyone (unless you are truly void of emotion) can relate to what your feeling was in that moment. I think almost every adult feels there isn’t enough hours in the day. I think everyone can understand getting used to some huge life change that you need to adapt to. I think almost everyone can relate to be traumatized. Everyone knows: happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, excitement, disappointment, scared, etc.
You don’t need to make it some grand spectacle that nobody could possibly understand your super intense feelings because they didn’t go through your life. Like her saying she only researched happy successful easy birth stuff was very telling to me. She didn’t want to hear about hardships. She doesn’t want to relate to others, she just wants to be the victim. If I remember correctly she also asked people not to compare what she went through to what they went through. Why? The feelings are the same just because the situations are different in no way does that take away from her experience nor does it take away from the person sharing a experience. Life is hard, and has difficulties no matter who you are but it doesn’t have to be about trumping the other person with your trauma vs theirs.
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You don’t need to make it some grand spectacle that nobody could possibly understand your super intense feelings because they didn’t go through your life. Like her saying she only researched happy successful easy birth stuff was very telling to me. She didn’t want to hear about hardships. She doesn’t want to relate to others, she just wants to be the victim. If I remember correctly she also asked people not to compare what she went through to what they went through. Why? The feelings are the same just because the situations are different in no way does that take away from her experience nor does it take away from the person sharing a experience. Life is hard, and has difficulties no matter who you are but it doesn’t have to be about trumping the other person with your trauma vs theirs.
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I think she didn't want anyone comparing because there are HUNDREDS of people out there with worse birth experiences than she had.
Not trying to gatekeep trauma, but if people started posting their traumatic birth stories in comparison, it would really highlight how completely fucking normal and fine her "traumatic" birth story was.
Not trying to gatekeep trauma, but if people started posting their traumatic birth stories in comparison, it would really highlight how completely fucking normal and fine her "traumatic" birth story was.
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Not to wk, but if my child wasn't breathing for more or less 3 minutes, I'd be pretty traumatized everybody's birth story is different. That's the one thing I will probably never judge another mom on, because I didn't experience it. I labored for 40hrs and ended with a c section, my baby was perfectly healthy. But to me, it was definitely traumatic. My nephew wasn't breathing when my sil had him, it was traumatic for her. I know kristi over exaggerates everything, but as a mom, her baby not breathing would've been my worst nightmare.Oldsmokey wrote:I think she didn't want anyone comparing because there are HUNDREDS of people out there with worse birth experiences than she had.
Not trying to gatekeep trauma, but if people started posting their traumatic birth stories in comparison, it would really highlight how completely fucking normal and fine her "traumatic" birth story was.
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but where will she go for her (many) invasive medical questions if she can't go to Twitter MD to validate her every thought????ColdBlooded1501 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 24, 2021 12:18 pmShe deleted the twitter app from her phone because "is bad for her mental health"; this woman is so full of shit, what she really wanted to say was: "people are starting to call me out about using my stans as emotional dumps and tweeting insensitive things as well as being a condescending ass so i deleted it because i'm a fragile princess and can't stand anything other than ass kissing and praise from strangers".
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yeah, my issue is she hyperbolizes everything already. she talks about the fall down the stairs (where she and her kid were fine) with the same weight and language as her sons birth. everything is in the extremes for her. so for me its hard to take her claims of 'serious trauma' seriously? because she says that so often about pretty ordinary occurrences, idk. perhaps im not wording that rightOldsmokey wrote: ↑Wed Mar 24, 2021 4:21 pmI think she didn't want anyone comparing because there are HUNDREDS of people out there with worse birth experiences than she had.
Not trying to gatekeep trauma, but if people started posting their traumatic birth stories in comparison, it would really highlight how completely fucking normal and fine her "traumatic" birth story was.
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As I've stated previously in the thread, I agree baby not breathing for that long would be traumatic. That's why I said I wasn't trying to gatekeep trauma, because I'm sure that was traumatic for her. But she labored for 40+ hours with meconium in the babies fluid FROM THE START. She knew there was a risk/ danger and she still prioritized her woowoo natural birth over the safety of her baby.InternetExplwhorer wrote: ↑Wed Mar 24, 2021 6:45 pmNot to wk, but if my child wasn't breathing for more or less 3 minutes, I'd be pretty traumatized everybody's birth story is different. That's the one thing I will probably never judge another mom on, because I didn't experience it. I labored for 40hrs and ended with a c section, my baby was perfectly healthy. But to me, it was definitely traumatic. My nephew wasn't breathing when my sil had him, it was traumatic for her. I know kristi over exaggerates everything, but as a mom, her baby not breathing would've been my worst nightmare.Oldsmokey wrote:I think she didn't want anyone comparing because there are HUNDREDS of people out there with worse birth experiences than she had.
Not trying to gatekeep trauma, but if people started posting their traumatic birth stories in comparison, it would really highlight how completely fucking normal and fine her "traumatic" birth story was.
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And watching her over an hour long birth story, that she literally titled *traumatic,* the actual very traumatic part was just a blip in it. She spent more time talking about Pitocin contractions and showing a video of her sobbing driving to the hospital than she did about her son not breathing. So for her to not to want people to post comparisons, it feels very much like she again doesn't want to hear that yeah, there are people who suffered and were traumatized in the same way and much worse than she was.
She can't win the sympathy Olympics when there are other people competing, and that is my issue.