NoelleM wrote:koala7 wrote:There is nothing wrong with a 23 year old who is financially stable to be pregnant per se, however it is Aspyn who we are talking about. She is only getting pregnant because she is dissatisfied with her life. She ran out of content to post and can't stand to just "be" with Parker for a while, it is either trips, a dog and now a baby and also because baby things are cutie.
These are not valid reasons to procreate in my opinion. Just because you can afford to have a child doesn't mean you should.
That’s how you see it because you enjoy bickering at her, but I’m pretty sure none of things listed by you running trough her mind.
- A 21 year old mom of a planned baby
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Yeah, I have to agree with you. While I do think there are certain weird things about Aspyn and Parker’s relationship, I think they’re one of the few youtube couples that actually can stand to just be with each other without anything else going on. And honestly, traveling with someone isn’t a walk in the park. Regardless of how excited you are to go somewhere and make memories with someone, traveling is annoying and exhausting and they did it so damn often with so little time in between at home that I’m almost impressed. The reason I feel like they can just be with each other is because they are- so often- ALL the time. They definitely bicker and get on each other’s nerves, especially on topics like Aspyn’s messiness or who does more around the house, but their relationship started out as a relatively normal high school relationship and seeing them grow together doesn’t give me the impression that they’re always trying to get away from each other. Traveling the world together isn’t my first thought when I think “how can I get away from him?” Lol. Especially when you consider that Aspyn barely wanted to explore the places they traveled and would have rather stayed in the hotel with Parker eating French fries. And getting a dog isn’t a “distraction” either. It makes life harder and they’d have to communicate and work together even more. It doesn’t add up to wanting to not “just be” together.
I’m on this site so obviously I have my issues with both of them, like I really feel like Aspyn’s a judgmental bitch a lot of the time (and hopefully Parker has mellowed her out a bit over the years) but they are more tolerable as a couple than a lot of youtubers in my opinion. They waited a year extra to start trying for a baby than they originally planned because they didn’t feel it was the right time. That doesn’t sound like looking for content to me. They’re one of the few couples on YouTube that don’t seem dissatisfied with their life in my opinion. They do a lot of things, but not to replace the last thing if that makes sense.
I really don’t want to be one of those people who are like “not to defend, but...” .... but having a baby *now* is probably one of the most normal and understandable decisions they’ve made. I mainly have my doubts about what type of parent she’ll be and what she’s actually expecting. I feel like she’s underestimating the work. It’ll be interesting to see if they have an “easy” baby or not.
Sorry for the rant!
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