I'm someone who has a hard time with commitment so speaking as someone on the other side of Danis rants..... if you are not clear with your expectations then they're not leading you on. You're an adult, Daniel, you need to communicate your expectations. If you're not into the FWB or casual setups... you need to tell these guys up front. If you're going out with them week after week, shacking up with them, vacationing, with the expectation of commitment or monogamy but aren't communicating that expectation... you are not being led on. Or worse, if they're telling you they're not wanting a relationship but you're still seeing them hoping they change their mind and then you get angry when they don't... you're as bad as the people who DO lead partners on. It's the same thing. I've told you I want A, you say you also want A, but then flip the script and want B ... Im not an asshole for not also wanting B. Not are these guys.effyou wrote:If that poem is hers - and it's heavily inspired at best - she admitted she was stupid enough to bang multiple guys and blamed them for "thinking it was fun to mislead her". Sorry but if you continued banging "guys in nightclubs pretending to like her only for the perks" then shouldn't she have figured out how to tell when a guy is using her?
Everyone's sex life is their own business and i don't care who's banging who as long as it's not effecting me personally but some people aren't into commitment. Did she really expect to get married and have babies with random night club hookups? Sorry no sympathy from me.
I'm sure some of these guys did intentionally mislead her and use her for sex, it happens to the best of us, but to continue fucking guys in hotels the day she meets them and have the same thing happen over and over and cry about how she's a poor victimised victim rather than gain half an ounce of self awareness is rather alarming. Idk
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