Xiaxue Part 20

Post by **overthereitsthere** » Mon Mar 05, 2018 8:58 am

has anyone else watched this?

pretty sure at 4 and a half, he is NOT a toddler, and also he definitely is autistic. she can't hide it anymore

Post by **Clover la BonBon** » Mon Mar 05, 2018 9:27 am

overthereitsthere wrote:

has anyone else watched this?

pretty sure at 4 and a half, he is NOT a toddler, and also he definitely is autistic. she can't hide it anymore

I thought this when I saw the video in my subs, he isn't a toddler anymore I'm sure.

Post by **_N_** » Mon Mar 05, 2018 5:40 pm

Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/ It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.

thoughts?

Post by **overthereitsthere** » Tue Mar 06, 2018 1:32 am

_N_ wrote:
Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/ It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.
thoughts?

Yeah still not buying it, she is rather defensive about this, and honestly look at how he is behaving. She continuously swats his hands away or grabs his hands, think about all the cuts and edits as well. This video is obviously edited to make him look as good as possible.

His reading is good? Don't think so - he doesn't seem like a voracious reader and he was adamant that 'cat' was 'cht'. He has been obsessively doodling/drawing a door for the bathroom - IIRC he was doing this a lot on her instastories. He isn't interactive and always has a glazed expression.

LOL. wow, didn't think I would feel so strongly about this but I guess I am just sick of her making excuses.

Post by **Over_the_rainbow** » Tue Mar 06, 2018 6:31 am

Dash is 5yo already, he was born in March 2013. He should be in K1 this year.

Post by **sittingduck** » Tue Mar 06, 2018 12:18 pm

_N_ wrote:
Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/ It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.
thoughts?

Where was this posted?

Post by **Guest** » Tue Mar 06, 2018 12:30 pm

_N_ wrote:
Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. <a class="vglnk" href="https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/" rel="nofollow">https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpoint/when-a-flair-for-reading-is-mistaken-for-autism/</a> It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.
thoughts?

I can believe it. I myself was taken to an autism specialist at age 3 and it turned out that I just had a massive delay in speech... I was not on the spectrum whatsoever. There was never an exact diagnosis for why I had the delay--I mean, this was in the 90's--but my mother just hired a speech therapist to work with me and that was that.

I wonder if XX made any efforts to aid Dash's speech issues. It seems to me that she's just making excuses to avoid treatment by saying she can't get a proper diagnosis on him.

Post by **_N_** » Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:53 pm

sittingduck wrote:
_N_ wrote:
Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/ It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.
thoughts?
Where was this posted?

she was replying to a comment on her latest vid

Post by **TaraJaz** » Wed Mar 07, 2018 12:58 pm

Hyshpqpq wrote:Referring to her latest insta story, she’s really only going to be left with Shuyin at the rate she’s feeling unhappy with what her friends do. I’m guessing the victim this time is Ripple, since she posted some stories at Meredith’s birthday party and I noticed that she’s no longer following Ripple on Instagram like she said how she has unfollowed that friend. Even said how she wouldn’t confront that friend because it would make her seem petty and unreasonable? But what’s the difference when she has posted publicly about it? People are still going to think she’s petty and unreasonable...?

Why is she unhappy with Ripple? I unfollow Xiaxue for a very long so I don't get to see her story.

Post by **_N_** » Wed Mar 07, 2018 5:11 pm

TaraJaz wrote:
Hyshpqpq wrote:Referring to her latest insta story, she’s really only going to be left with Shuyin at the rate she’s feeling unhappy with what her friends do. I’m guessing the victim this time is Ripple, since she posted some stories at Meredith’s birthday party and I noticed that she’s no longer following Ripple on Instagram like she said how she has unfollowed that friend. Even said how she wouldn’t confront that friend because it would make her seem petty and unreasonable? But what’s the difference when she has posted publicly about it? People are still going to think she’s petty and unreasonable...?
Why is she unhappy with Ripple? I unfollow Xiaxue for a very long so I don't get to see her story.

cos ripple was hanging out with qq.

i do have to say tho ripple is really mature for still following/liking xx's shit ever after what went down

Post by **ohanapanda** » Fri Mar 09, 2018 3:55 pm

Lol I find xx accent kinda funny whenever she talks in English.

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Post by **Hasuko** » Sat Mar 10, 2018 8:21 am

_N_ wrote:
sittingduck wrote:
_N_ wrote:
Xiaxue
7 hours ago (edited)
Thank you for everyone's concern. I suppose it's time to address this issue once and for all, because it has been mentioned many times before. I've had Dash checked by several psychologists, and they said he is not autistic. However, it is true he has speech delay, which makes his communication sound weird. After countless nights of research on autism (who would have expected I will become a mini autism expert), I believe he has a condition called Hyperlexia Type 3. If you are interested, here is a short explanation. https://spectrumnews.org/opinion/viewpo ... or-autism/ It is a little known condition, so I cannot find any psychologist/neurology expert in Singapore to verify my suspicion. Hyperlexia 3 kids tend to show autistic symptoms, which they mostly outgrow by age 7. It's a really fascinating condition actually. These children have an amazing talent for reading. Dash can spell hippopotamus at age 2 and now at age 4 he can read any word with ease, despite never being specifically taught. Long ago I wrote a blog post, stating that I am resolutely sure Dash isn't autistic. At age 2, he had good eye contact, laughed at peekaboo, was affectionate and friendly to everyone, said more words and earlier than his peers, didn't line objects up or hurt himself, wasn't a stickler for routine, and didn't have any sensory sensitivities, which 85% of autistic kids do. His only warning sign was his love for fans and spinning, which one day about a year ago he suddenly and completely lost interest in it. But when his peers caught up with his speech and he can't seem to have a proper back and forth conversation, I knew something was up. Please understand that as a parent I am torn. I don't know if I should talk about Dash's condition because I think he should have a right to decide for himself if he wants to let people know, it shouldn't be up to me to announce it to the world. Secondly, announcing this might cause social stigma for him (I don't want other kids to avoid him) and might affect school intake chances in future. Maybe it isn't completely honest but all parents want the best for their children, no? Thirdly, despite the experts saying he isn't autistic, a (very sad) part of me still wonders what if they are wrong? I don't want to announce that he is or isn't, because honestly neurology is so complex and nobody seems to really know what is going on with him. You can only diagnose the brain based on symptoms... And symptoms can be caused by a variety of reasons. Anyway, the best I can do for him is to try to get him better by treating those symptoms, so he is taking therapy classes. Hiding my comment here as I am terrified what people will say about him. Please be kind and understanding, thank you.

PS: Regarding eye contact... Dash is very easily distracted by his surroundings so he doesn't have a lot of eye contact, but even if this short video u can see instances of it at 0:01, 2:31 and 3:45.
thoughts?
Where was this posted?
she was replying to a comment on her latest vid

Funny she's calling her child's development delay "fascinating" when she would be the first one to mock people with disabilities a few years ago....

Post by **_N_** » Sun Mar 11, 2018 8:34 pm

i wonder what happened to her determination to have another kid? maybe she finally realised their so called good eggs and good sperms are actually faulty and is worried her next one will be challenged like dash?

Post by **takoyaki** » Mon Mar 12, 2018 6:02 am

Her mind is so f***ed up. 'Joking' that she would rape her husband.

Post by **rooibostree** » Sat Mar 17, 2018 3:25 pm

She used to brag about her having a mensa level IQ. Now she has a kid who has special needs. I love the irony. Good eggs my ass lol

Post by **Miriabelle** » Thu Mar 22, 2018 10:12 am

New but i can't stop laughing at her pre-surgery pics

the transformation is worse than michelle phan
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OT: I think this site should use smileys from atrl

Post by **elleira** » Thu Mar 22, 2018 10:41 am

She's a sicko. Did anyone catch her IG story "polls" on disgusting Would You Rather questions? Like pertaining to eating human meat, or "dick cheese" over something else nasty and whatever else she was going on about. Her mind really disturbs me. Being raised by a person like that is probably not good development-wise...

Post by **Over_the_rainbow** » Sun Mar 25, 2018 9:27 pm

elleira wrote:She's a sicko. Did anyone catch her IG story "polls" on disgusting Would You Rather questions? Like pertaining to eating human meat, or "dick cheese" over something else nasty and whatever else she was going on about. Her mind really disturbs me. Being raised by a person like that is probably not good development-wise...

She's got nothing better to post so post sicko stuff to get attention. Really pathetic. She probably used to think she could survive on Dash's growing up videos but never imagined he can't even sustain a normal back and forth conversation.

Post by **Chlorophyll** » Mon Mar 26, 2018 3:39 am

This is probably going to come across as catty, but I am genuinely asking: Is it worth my time to keep tabs on this stupid bitch anymore? Has she come up with anything truly interesting or helpful in a while? I don't really care about her family that much, I always used to follow her because I thought she was unique. Are those days over, do you guys think?

Post by **_N_** » Mon Mar 26, 2018 4:46 am

Chlorophyll wrote:This is probably going to come across as catty, but I am genuinely asking: Is it worth my time to keep tabs on this stupid bitch anymore? Has she come up with anything truly interesting or helpful in a while? I don't really care about her family that much, I always used to follow her because I thought she was unique. Are those days over, do you guys think?

really only here to keep up with dash' autism.
cannot wait to see her finally admitting her son is autistic

remember her blog post years ago insisting her son is normal and that gg is wrong?
a true in your face moment, cannot wait to gloat

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