Moving on from a 14 year relationship!

[Kerrbear2001]

So how does one process ending a 14 year relationship. (Married for 8 of those years) when you find out your husband had pedophile tendencies.

I came into this relationship with three daughters. He had a daughter and a son. I have spent the last 14 years thinking he was a really great guy only to find the most horrific searches and pictures on his phone. Thankfully he never touched my girls and was actually a decent father to them. I am so confused, devastated, broken. He has admitted it goes back to before we were even married. Yet he still married me and wanted the last 14 years of my life. Made me feel unattractive and unwanted because he was unable to get an erection with an adult woman. So any advice in processing this and getting on with my life would be greatly appreciated.

[kathleenblom]

Hello, I think your first priority should be the safety and well-being of yourself and your children. If you haven't already, consider seeking support from a professional counselor or therapist who specializes in trauma or abuse. They can provide guidance and support as you navigate this difficult time.