I didn't want to "advise" her, I just wrote a comment saying something along the lines of "what's your thoughts on the Christchurch situation, I follow you and I just wanted to know your feelings on it as it's a terrible situation that is resonating with the Muslim community" and it wasn't insulting in any way or preaching to her or telling her off. It was a genuine question because like I said I used to follow her, I had just got Instagram and I didn't know about instastories. If you're saying that my comment which could be read by hundreds of people was wrong for me to post, then isn't that the exact same thing she did with my comment and posting it on her instastory? She could've just replied to my comment. And I didn't know about the instastory until the other girl messaged me and told me and then put up a comment under mine. And annam blocked her! So she can have a go at someone but when someone else calls her out on it she is within her right to block her and delete all evidence of it? Lol isnt that double standards?Khad_ijah wrote:Fri Oct 18, 2019 3:58 amOh yes I remember this happening, to be honest I think it’s fair for her to block people being negative on her profile, and with regards to posting about Christchurch or any other event - it’s her account and she’s free to post or not post whatever she wants. If you wanted to advise her then you should have done it in private? I’m sorry if I’m preaching but I don’t believe in publicly embarrassing someone - if you felt she was doing something wrong then writing a comment for hundreds of thousands of followers to see isn’t the right way to do it. My question to you is why do you still look at her posts or watch her videos and even watch her cousins videos if you don’t find them entertaining? It just doesn’t make sense to me, if they annoy you then you shouldn’t look at their profiles and read through their comments and watch their lives - clearly it affects you in some type of way for you to come on here and make assumptions about their lives. In all honesty, they seem really down to earth and lovely and classy - the bond with their whole family is refreshing to see and they seem very open minded which you don’t see in a lot of Pakistani families. I pray for happiness for both you and them - and I’ll advise you to stop looking at their content if it’s going to cause you to have negative thoughts and make you feel the need to come on here and rant. Trust me sister, you have so many more things you could be doing with your time than this. May Allah guide you to the right path.KhaZadelete216 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 17, 2019 8:11 amHere's a screenshot of the comment of the girl who was blocked by annam and who replied to her instastory about my comment. I don't have a screenshot of my comment because it was deleted. So this person was blocked just for voicing her opinion on annams reaction to my comment. If you want to follow people like that then that's up to you. Personally, I found it very kind of that girl (who I don't even know btw) to stick up for me.
Like I said I don't follow her anymore, sometimes her pics come up on my feed, sometimes her Vids come up on my YouTube and if I click then I click. But I don't go out of my way to follow her or look her up on a daily basis. I admit I do see her changing her style and the way she dresses and it's curious to me but I'm not sitting around all day on her page or her channel and stalking her and having negative thoughts about it. You find her so lovely and kind and relatable, good for you. I don't. And this is the internet so I can share my thoughts about it here. In fact why have you singled me out exactly? I didn't make this thread and I'm not the only one posting on it. You're sticking up for someone you don't even know and whose whole "career" revolves around Instagram and youtube. You only see the things they want you to see. They call themselves "influencers" but they don't even do that in a good way.
Thank you for the reminder, may Allah reward you for it and may He keep us all on the straight path and submitted to Him alone ameen.