I don't think anyone was dragging Emmy through the mud. Personally I happened to find it looking for a good pic of Undress for my avatar. I pointed it out because it was literally that easy to access the information. And why was that? Because Moolissa and also her brother to an extent have exposed everyone in her family to this. She said it herself she could have just played it off that Emily was her child from another relationship, no one would've ever known. But she chose to make the video where she excused how Emily is treated. Her adoption story was shady af to me because I've dealt with a lot stuff with CPS and CASA. I had NEVER heard of anyone getting a half ass adoption like she claimed. It's easy to tell the truth about the situation. But she wants the asspats. She wants the attention. She wanted to make the "haters" who called her out about how Emily is treated different than the other girls, feel bad. When I saw the person who had commented was someone from Emily's biofamily, I looked through her profile because I was curious if she said anything about the whole Emmy situation. I wanted to see if maybe this family was some kind of scum who didn't give a crap about her, cause trust me I've seen plenty of those who don't bother to show up to court and fight for the child. But instead I found a woman who seemed to genuinely love her and wanted what was best for her at that time. It broke my heart to know how loved this kid was and that she's now growing up in a home where she is unequally treated.BBauntie wrote:It's one thing to trash a guru. another to drag her 7 year old into the mud.taketheshot wrote:Yet ya'll are the ones in a trash the guru forum. If you don't think it's fair, leave. Why does this forum even exist? The truth comes out and now everyone is loving on Melissa.BBauntie wrote:I agree with the comments about her mother being out of line. Her mom did not sign up for this. If someone talked about my mom the way some have I'd come out swinging.dsb2007 wrote:100% agree; however, I also take full responsibility for some of the stuff I have participated in previously before things got out of control. I am all about "looking things up" using detective work and I agree that Melissa is stupid with putting her family stuff out there, but they did not ask for this intrusiveness. The comments made about her Mom recently (who seems like a decent person) were over the line.The Emmy stuff is beyond over the line. No matter what we think of Melissa, Emmy does not deserve us probing into her business. I also agree it's not fair to the birth mother either. I honestly think maybe a new thread is warranted and the discussion should be closed.lavenderblue wrote:I'm in agreement with this crossing the line. I'm all for snarking on an adult who created an online presence but contacting the birth mother who may have mental issues of an innocent little girl is cruel on both sides, the mother and Emmy. Yes, Melissa puts her life online but not to the point where people should reach out to try and hurt her family. Do I think there is favoritism towards Mandy and Autumn? Absolutely. But do I also think Emmy is in a loving home and in a much better place than her birth mother can clearly give her? DEFINITELY. Neither Emmy nor her birth mother deserve this and while I don't agree with people putting their children online for likes and click money, it's not Emmy's fault and it's not her birth mother's either.
I also think the comments calling maddie and autumn ugly and obese are out of line. They're children, they do not deserve that.
I think a new thread should be started as well.
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To all of you who say that the Mendoza home is a loving environment do we not watch the same videos? That kid knows she is tolerated. And she will deal with a whole lot of issues of her self image and self worth because they do not treat her the same. She already has shown signs of it. Have you not seen how Emily constantly reminds the camera and moolissa about the fact that she is a good eater? That's one of the few things she is praised about since Maddie is picky and stubborn. I said this before you do not take the responsibility of fostering if you are not going to be 100% committed. Melissa was just playing house and Undress went along with it. They didn't think it was going to turn into a permanent thing.
I brought it up because it just drilled home what awful parents these people are and what a complete attention seeking liar Melissa is.
