I agree that Cyrus isn't the right person for her, but I have to disagree with that one statement. Having an enabling partner won't do her any good, just look at how Anthony treated her and yet she just became more self-entitled and self-centered than before. Enabling her to just lie in her PJs all day pretending to be productive will do more damage than good. I get her too, I'm very introverted and a huge cat lady. I've had my faire share of bad relationships before I met my husband. He's a real hard-worker and people charmer without putting any effort something I'm totally not, instead of being insecure I let him inspire me. I went back to school, studied and got my license. Took an extra languages class and finally did what I wanted to do. He was there for me but he never enabled me to be a couch-potato or be a bad-version of me, if I had bad days he knows how to back down but let me tell you this aswell he knows when I'm just acting up and he won't have that, it's annoying at the moment but I thanked him for it in the long run that he didn't gave up on me and never enabled me. If me and kalel have the same mentality I would think of it as him not supporting me enough.BaconBaconBacon wrote:Kalel and I are very similar...both very introverted home bodies, cat ladies, vegan, same sort of mental issues, so I feel for her. But I also feel like Cyrus really wasn't right for her. She probably felt like he was someone who could help her be healthier. Like getting out of the house more and whatnot but that's not necessarily what she needs. She needs someone who understands and is willing to put up with her wanting to stay home all day. I agree she needs to figure out her career outside of YouTube and I understand it's probably very hard to do things exactly how she wants them done (like a totally vegan clothing line) but she needs to start small and work her way up. She probably can't afford the best quality at first, but it's too hard for her t accept that. It's something she needs to work on mentally though, she's always been super critical with stuff like that.
crlnzo wrote:I agree that Cyrus isn't the right person for her, but I have to disagree with that one statement. Having an enabling partner won't do her any good, just look at how Anthony treated her and yet she just became more self-entitled and self-centered than before. Enabling her to just lie in her PJs all day pretending to be productive will do more damage than good. I get her too, I'm very introverted and a huge cat lady. I've had my faire share of bad relationships before I met my husband. He's a real hard-worker and people charmer without putting any effort something I'm totally not, instead of being insecure I let him inspire me. I went back to school, studied and got my license. Took an extra languages class and finally did what I wanted to do. He was there for me but he never enabled me to be a couch-potato or be a bad-version of me, if I had bad days he knows how to back down but let me tell you this aswell he knows when I'm just acting up and he won't have that, it's annoying at the moment but I thanked him for it in the long run that he didn't gave up on me and never enabled me. If me and kalel have the same mentality I would think of it as him not supporting me enough.BaconBaconBacon wrote:Kalel and I are very similar...both very introverted home bodies, cat ladies, vegan, same sort of mental issues, so I feel for her. But I also feel like Cyrus really wasn't right for her. She probably felt like he was someone who could help her be healthier. Like getting out of the house more and whatnot but that's not necessarily what she needs. She needs someone who understands and is willing to put up with her wanting to stay home all day. I agree she needs to figure out her career outside of YouTube and I understand it's probably very hard to do things exactly how she wants them done (like a totally vegan clothing line) but she needs to start small and work her way up. She probably can't afford the best quality at first, but it's too hard for her t accept that. It's something she needs to work on mentally though, she's always been super critical with stuff like that.
She already has the easiest well paid job, she gets to stay at home vlogging herself cooking meals and eating it or watching some reality show and gets paid and yet she's doing a really shitty job with it. Cyrus knew she was a YTer and still moved appartments with her even if it's too far from his workplace, I'll be damned if he didn't support Kalel's YT career. Edit** and he seems okay with kalel just being at home and supported her causes, hell, he even had a fundraiser for the NGO "mercy for animals" and raised above 300. What probably got to him is kalel's unwillingness to actually have a productive life.
Bottomline: Kalel's problem is her and her twisted views, mentality and attitude towards everything not because she's with the wrong person.
I like Kalel - New Break Up, New Break DownGirltyler wrote:Kalel "new break up, new break down" kitten
so he REALLY did privated because of the minionsItzfleur wrote:If it interests anyone for any reason, Cyrus' Instagram is not private anymore for some reason.
"Your environment is an important part of you and your identity. Everyday it reinforces who you are. Tear your environment down and rebuild it to help create and reinforce a new part of yourself and the person you want to become."
eatincrackers wrote:I've never put too much stock in personality tests. People are more dimensional than what a few questions can tell you abou them. I do feel bad for Kalel that she doesn't seem to really know herself. (Constantly changing styles, clinging so tightly to labels like INTJ and vegan). I was curious about the INTJ-T label that Kalel gave herself so I took a Myer Briggs test online too, and I got the same one when I was honestly just answering the questions. I don't think that personality type means you don't care about other people or whatever else she is blaming on it. To me it seems like the type a/driven personality type. If she is so INTJ, they was hasn't she finished that book?
The funniest part of all of this "I try not to let words define me."
Wendy? Wtf lolKittyGussip wrote:I think he didnt want to be a public figure and didnt want the youtube attention so he told her he doesnt want any part of it and didnt follow her
but she is crazy and still wanted to make a public one to show off her boyfriend to her minions
I remember when she had a peace zen love blog and she had an instagram account by the same name and she followed Cyrus`s real account with it and he followed her peace zen love account with his real private one ( sadly that instagram account has everything deleted after she deleted the blog, but its still there)
