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Kalel"Ambition"&LoveSmitten Part 29
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I know that people suffer from perfectionism and it is a legitimate disorder. Sorry my comment was badly worded - I'm not sure where my head was at when I was writing it lol. No, I just meant that I don't know how she can claim that she's a perfectionist when she constantly appears less than put together, puts out subpar videos that were lazily made or edited, and so on. Nothing about the way she presents herself or the content she produces says "perfect" to me, or even close. Actually, I take that back: there are videos every now in then where I do think that she spent a long time working on them - usually the ones she posts after channel relaunches, etc. But those videos are few and far between. Whenever she starts putting effort into her videos and tries to get on a schedule... well, it doesn't last long.berlinchair wrote:I actually suffer from "maladaptive perfectionism" (in quotes because it's a colloquial term rather than a clinical one) as part of another mental illness, and it is actually a thing that people suffer from. It's a bit of a misleading label, because people with maladaptive perfectionism actually can be underachievers, because they become so anxious about doing things perfectly that sonetimes they end up avoiding situations where their work will be graded or judged. I have had a really hard time getting through school because I will rewrite assignments ten or 15 times, and sometimes not hand them in because they don't feel like they're good enough. Likewise, giving a wrong answer in class discussion or taking an exam that I am not likely to get 100% on can be terrifying to me. The only way I can describe it is...it feels like if I fail to turn in perfect work, my lecture is going to start punching me or a blade is going to fly across the room and cut my head off. If Kalel struggles with that, I really feel for her.Wishx23 wrote:
Also, I never know what she's talking about with this "perfectionism" thing and how her videos have to be perfect, etc.
However, as you're mentioning, there are a lot of things she does that are not....consistent, with this type of maladaptive perfectionism. For one, as you mentioned, she seems to be okay with uploading half-assed videos. Someone with MP would be more black and white - their videos would either be perfect/high quality, or there would be a total lack of any uploads. Even the thought of uploading a half-assed video would make someone with MP have panic attacks, let alone doing it. Kalel also seems to consider her perfectionism to be a...virtue? She talks about it like she's proud of it and like being a perfectionist is the same as being perfect already. Someone with MP would be opposite - they usually have no problem recognising that their perfectionism is unhealthy and a bad thing, and they are acutely aware of how imperfect they are.
And so on. Tl;dr: While maladaptive perfectionism is a real thing, you're absolutely right in saying that Kalel's actions are inconsistent with someone who struggles with MP. Something else seems to be at work.
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I was recently thinking this. She says that we, the audience, are experiencing a "grass is greener on the other side" viewpoint in regards to her lifestyle. While that very well may be true, she follows it up by saying she'd rather go back to working 3 jobs like she used to than deal with what she is currently. Um, sounds to me that she's also having a very "grass is greener on the other side" moment by saying that, because she can easily go out, apply, and land three jobs - but do you see her ass doing it? Nope. Yes, they'd be along the lines of a sales associate at a clothing store or a waitress at a Veggie Grill, but there you go, Kalel. Go live that life you desperately miss and yearn to trade your current one for. But, oh, I'm sure she thinks she is above working a job such as that or that people might recognize her; however, that didn't stop one the daughters of the POTUS. In conclusion, I agree that it's more or less nothing but more manipulation and sob stories from Kalel.quartz wrote:the nerve, the audacity, to claim she would rather work 3 jobs than have her life. Bitch, fuck you. Its really easy. Delete Anthonys channel that you plastered "kaloser kitten" all over and go get 3 jobs then. She acts as if someone held a gun to her head and made her do all of her manipulated crazy ass shit. when in reality, she has manipulated, lied and used more successful people to get to where she is. but of course that doesnt go along with her sob story so she deleted my commented.
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Offtopic: but still wrong cause it's a misconception lol there are a lot of muslim women who wear modern clothesKittyGussip wrote:DUDE ! I didnt mean it like that XDWeird Vagina wrote:Offtopic: lol whaat... this is wrongKittyGussip wrote:Muslim cover themselves from head to toe
its not like theyre Batman , but they wear head scarf "or Hijab" and long sleeved clothes
you're talking about traditional clothes which depend on where you live. I mean, it's not a 'religious' clothing, it's not even in the Quran.
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I know kalel is full of shit but idk if it's just me but when she was talking about the 3 jobs I sort of felt like she meant that in a sense she'd prefer that because it would keep her busy?! I mean with YouTube it's easy to sit on your ass all day and do nothing because you "make your schedule" but when you're on the hustle or whatever you're constantly spending your time doing something you're required to do, because it seems like she can't keep herself busy and she's always bored and then starts to get crazy. Idk that's just what I thought and I do not know if she actually had that intention
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Oh, no, you're all good! I just wanted to try and shed a bit of light, since most people consider perfectionism to be a good thing and don't realise that it can go bad. But I got what you're saying, and agree.Wishx23 wrote:I know that people suffer from perfectionism and it is a legitimate disorder. Sorry my comment was badly worded - I'm not sure where my head was at when I was writing it lol. No, I just meant that I don't know how she can claim that she's a perfectionist when she constantly appears less than put together, puts out subpar videos that were lazily made or edited, and so on. Nothing about the way she presents herself or the content she produces says "perfect" to me, or even close. Actually, I take that back: there are videos every now in then where I do think that she spent a long time working on them - usually the ones she posts after channel relaunches, etc. But those videos are few and far between. Whenever she starts putting effort into her videos and tries to get on a schedule... well, it doesn't last long.berlinchair wrote:I actually suffer from "maladaptive perfectionism" (in quotes because it's a colloquial term rather than a clinical one) as part of another mental illness, and it is actually a thing that people suffer from. It's a bit of a misleading label, because people with maladaptive perfectionism actually can be underachievers, because they become so anxious about doing things perfectly that sonetimes they end up avoiding situations where their work will be graded or judged. I have had a really hard time getting through school because I will rewrite assignments ten or 15 times, and sometimes not hand them in because they don't feel like they're good enough. Likewise, giving a wrong answer in class discussion or taking an exam that I am not likely to get 100% on can be terrifying to me. The only way I can describe it is...it feels like if I fail to turn in perfect work, my lecture is going to start punching me or a blade is going to fly across the room and cut my head off. If Kalel struggles with that, I really feel for her.Wishx23 wrote:
Also, I never know what she's talking about with this "perfectionism" thing and how her videos have to be perfect, etc.
However, as you're mentioning, there are a lot of things she does that are not....consistent, with this type of maladaptive perfectionism. For one, as you mentioned, she seems to be okay with uploading half-assed videos. Someone with MP would be more black and white - their videos would either be perfect/high quality, or there would be a total lack of any uploads. Even the thought of uploading a half-assed video would make someone with MP have panic attacks, let alone doing it. Kalel also seems to consider her perfectionism to be a...virtue? She talks about it like she's proud of it and like being a perfectionist is the same as being perfect already. Someone with MP would be opposite - they usually have no problem recognising that their perfectionism is unhealthy and a bad thing, and they are acutely aware of how imperfect they are.
And so on. Tl;dr: While maladaptive perfectionism is a real thing, you're absolutely right in saying that Kalel's actions are inconsistent with someone who struggles with MP. Something else seems to be at work.
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I know kalel is full of shit but idk if it's just me but when she was talking about the 3 jobs I sort of felt like she meant that in a sense she'd prefer that because it would keep her busy?! I mean with YouTube it's easy to sit on your ass all day and do nothing because you "make your schedule" but when you're on the hustle or whatever you're constantly spending your time doing something you're required to do, because it seems like she can't keep herself busy and she's always bored and then starts to get crazy. Idk that's just what I thought and I do not know if she actually had that intention
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Oh my good Lord, Kalel, just fucking quit already.
You know, I blocked her channel AND I sent YouTube feedback in my recommended section (where she kept popping up) that I'm not interested in her channel... but because she opted in for additional promotion from YouTube, she STILL shows up in my sidebar videos when I watch other videos as "recommended" and I still have to look at her face and the dodgy video title... end up clicking it anyway because why the fuck not (ad block is on anyway) and end up leaving a comment calling her out. You wonder why you get so many negative comments, Kalel? Because you're still - even while complaining about YouTube being a fucking slaughterhouse - paying YouTube to push views for your channel. You'd save yourself so much trouble having to delete all the comments you can't handle if you would just give it up already.
But videos are apparently "too direct" and she can't have control over the end product - go ahead, blame the format, just because you deleted your shitty Tweets doesn't mean you can control that your audience has already seen and screenshot it. More like false sense of control.
She is honestly just such a shitty, ungrateful person. Just fuck off or stop complaining, Kalel. Your life is not difficult. YOU are difficult.
You know, I blocked her channel AND I sent YouTube feedback in my recommended section (where she kept popping up) that I'm not interested in her channel... but because she opted in for additional promotion from YouTube, she STILL shows up in my sidebar videos when I watch other videos as "recommended" and I still have to look at her face and the dodgy video title... end up clicking it anyway because why the fuck not (ad block is on anyway) and end up leaving a comment calling her out. You wonder why you get so many negative comments, Kalel? Because you're still - even while complaining about YouTube being a fucking slaughterhouse - paying YouTube to push views for your channel. You'd save yourself so much trouble having to delete all the comments you can't handle if you would just give it up already.
But videos are apparently "too direct" and she can't have control over the end product - go ahead, blame the format, just because you deleted your shitty Tweets doesn't mean you can control that your audience has already seen and screenshot it. More like false sense of control.
She is honestly just such a shitty, ungrateful person. Just fuck off or stop complaining, Kalel. Your life is not difficult. YOU are difficult.
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I hope youtube demonetizes her videos. She doesn't deserve a single cent.
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OMG same! I have no idea what is up with youtube so i watch her videos when Im not logged into youtube...not that I even watch her videos much anymore. I couldnt even bother with that click bait (quitting?)I havent seen her honest video either.DaylightAmy wrote:Oh my good Lord, Kalel, just fucking quit already.
You know, I blocked her channel AND I sent YouTube feedback in my recommended section (where she kept popping up) that I'm not interested in her channel... but because she opted in for additional promotion from YouTube, she STILL shows up in my sidebar videos when I watch other videos as "recommended" and I still have to look at her face and the dodgy video title... end up clicking it anyway because why the fuck not (ad block is on anyway) and end up leaving a comment calling her out. You wonder why you get so many negative comments, Kalel? Because you're still - even while complaining about YouTube being a fucking slaughterhouse - paying YouTube to push views for your channel. You'd save yourself so much trouble having to delete all the comments you can't handle if you would just give it up already.
But videos are apparently "too direct" and she can't have control over the end product - go ahead, blame the format, just because you deleted your shitty Tweets doesn't mean you can control that your audience has already seen and screenshot it. More like false sense of control.
She is honestly just such a shitty, ungrateful person. Just fuck off or stop complaining, Kalel. Your life is not difficult. YOU are difficult.
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^
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I bet its a lie like how she sais she`ll talk with Hillary "^^
maybe its a concert ? is he on a tour right now ?
I also like to see Muslim women who are stylish
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I bet its a lie like how she sais she`ll talk with Hillary "^^
maybe its a concert ? is he on a tour right now ?
Sorry but last Offtopic: youre right, there is no "religious clothing" but more of a "dress code in Islam"Weird Vagina wrote:Offtopic: but still wrong cause it's a misconception lol there are a lot of muslim women who wear modern clothesKittyGussip wrote:DUDE ! I didnt mean it like that XDWeird Vagina wrote:Offtopic: lol whaat... this is wrongKittyGussip wrote:Muslim cover themselves from head to toe
its not like theyre Batman , but they wear head scarf "or Hijab" and long sleeved clothes
you're talking about traditional clothes which depend on where you live. I mean, it's not a 'religious' clothing, it's not even in the Quran.
if you have any question, feel free to pm me
sorry I know it's not about kalel or anything but I just needed to answer lol
I also like to see Muslim women who are stylish
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He is currently on tour right now. He has a concert in Las Vegas tonight. She could actually be telling the truth about meeting him because there are VIP packages that people can get that includes meet & greets.KittyGussip wrote:^
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is he on a tour right now ?
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wait, she moved to a smaller apartment to afford the VIP ticket ?!iamber90 wrote:He is currently on tour right now. He has a concert in Las Vegas tonight. She could actually be telling the truth about meeting him because there are VIP packages that people can get that includes meet & greets.KittyGussip wrote:^
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is he on a tour right now ?
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Offtopic: Appearntly Miel opened a youtube channel (its in Anthony`s new vlog`s Description :
https://www.youtube.com/user/MielMonster/videos
som Kalel... you sure you want to quit or are you gonna copy her ?
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I just realized that Cyrus can buy her the VIP Ticket ( cant edit the post "^^ )KittyGussip wrote: wait, she moved to a smaller apartment to afford the VIP ticket ?!
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i just checked the "about" section, and it looks like Miel has had this channel since 2010.. but hopefully she'll start making videos soon to really shove it in Kale's face
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Did anyone else see Anthony's Portland vlog? I haven't gotten the chance but I wonder how it'll fare compare to Kalel's.