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ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by dulapeep » Tue Feb 10, 2015 6:49 pm

Wooo a new thread~

Anyway, considering what everyone's said about her sexuality, I feel like she's using it now as an excuse to ca$h in? She's trying to do videos and shit all about being bi and I feel like she's just putting it out there now to make new content. But who knows

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by Magnolia » Tue Feb 10, 2015 7:46 pm

She's asking for relationship advice questions for her & Chris..
Like I would ever listen to that couple for relationship advice!!
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Post by whateverthenok » Wed Feb 11, 2015 6:37 pm

THIS TITLE IS SUCH A LIE... YOUTUBE IS HER JOB. /s

Yeah, obviously she's cashing in. If she's telling the truth. Which, I'm still not sure she is.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by politicalpartygirl » Wed Feb 11, 2015 6:47 pm

So she admitted they have an open relationship.

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Post by nutella » Wed Feb 11, 2015 7:05 pm

Have they said before that they have an open relationship? Some people obviously know if they asked about it, but I'd never known or heard anything before.

I almost have no doubt that it's because sexuality and openness about it is so cool n' edgey at the moment on Tumblr. Each to their own, but it makes zero sense to me that her reasoning for it was being comfortable in your relationship, each other and yourself, if they're literally wanting someone else and perhaps seeking emotional needs elsewhere (maybe it's just sexual though idk). And I'm also almost positive it wasn't Chris' decision, or desire.

They also never once said that they loved each other. I was kind of waiting for it, "it's because we love each other". It just seemed so dry and stiff. You want other people, you obviously want to experiment, you seem to just be 'chill' like friends, yet you're still together most likely because you don't want to be alone... sad.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by LolaGrace » Wed Feb 11, 2015 9:36 pm

Well, Rachel is Chris' first girlfriend. So if they are in an open relationship, I doubt it was his idea. And how sad if they are. I'm sorry. I know the in thing with this generation is to be pansexual. Fine if you are. Who cares. But if you truly love your man/woman and are fulfilled, you're not going to look elsewhere for gratification. Yes, monogamy is a social construct. I'm married but I get crushes here and there on other guys. I'd never act on it however. I love my husband too much and he's my best friend. And TMI, but the sex is so damn good I don't need to look elsewhere. It's a personal decision to have an open relationship, clearly. But I personally could never do it. Just my 10 cents. And does anyone think they really are in an open relationship? Because they were pretty evasive in the "advice" video.

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Post by badhairspray » Wed Feb 11, 2015 10:10 pm

They seem like just roommates now more than anything. I'm CRAZY over my S/O and I don't try to rationalize and logically explain things, sometimes there is no explanation other than, "I love him and that's why."

Also, if I hear them smugly call something "toxic" one more time I'm gonna scream

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by whateverthenok » Wed Feb 11, 2015 10:30 pm

nutella wrote:Have they said before that they have an open relationship? Some people obviously know if they asked about it, but I'd never known or heard anything before.

I almost have no doubt that it's because sexuality and openness about it is so cool n' edgey at the moment on Tumblr. Each to their own, but it makes zero sense to me that her reasoning for it was being comfortable in your relationship, each other and yourself, if they're literally wanting someone else and perhaps seeking emotional needs elsewhere (maybe it's just sexual though idk). And I'm also almost positive it wasn't Chris' decision, or desire.

They also never once said that they loved each other. I was kind of waiting for it, "it's because we love each other". It just seemed so dry and stiff. You want other people, you obviously want to experiment, you seem to just be 'chill' like friends, yet you're still together most likely because you don't want to be alone... sad.
I've never actually seen them say they love each other like... ever. My SO and I aren't really Internet people but that sort of stuff slips in occasionally on Instagram captions and Facebook statuses. But I've never seen it with Rachel and Chris?

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by FrozenLeaves » Thu Feb 12, 2015 12:56 pm

Waiting for an "I love Chris" to "slip" somewhere on social media cuz it was said here.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by butterflyprincess » Thu Feb 12, 2015 3:21 pm

Yeah, I thought the whole open relationship thing was strange. Like she answered the question as if she's had experience in an open relationship - implying that she and Chris are in an open relationship - but doesn't say it directly.

Poor Chris. As others have said, I'm sure it wasn't his idea.
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ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by Newnonkc » Thu Feb 12, 2015 4:50 pm

So weird. It's like when Rachel and Chris started dating he was like her savior, she was so proud to show him off and then talk about how long they've been dating.

But now it seems like she would be single if she could, but they've been together for so long. And they're probably financially dependent on one another. I don't think she appreciates the relationship anymore and has other interests. I think someone else said this before, but I think when they started dating she was kind of out of Chris' league or may have seemed intimidating to him, but now I think he could do a lot better. I think she's kind of brought out the worst in him...

I'm trying to keep it from sounding like I'm absolutely demonizing her but there's no other way to put it, lol.

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Post by berrysweetheart » Fri Feb 13, 2015 11:29 am

It seemed so awkward when he put his arm around her and pulled her closer to him. I just don't see their chemistry at all.

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Post by whocares » Sat Feb 14, 2015 5:31 pm

Open relationship? So they sleep with other people while in a relationship with each other?

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by whateverthenok » Sat Feb 14, 2015 6:58 pm

"I have very very thick hair" LMAO LOL WHITE GIRLS BE LIKE

just kidding I know some white girls do have really thick hair but Rachel's hair is not thick at all? Not even a little bit? The time it took her to curl her hair is about 1/4 of what it takes me to do mine and it's about the same length

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Post by badhairspray » Sun Feb 15, 2015 12:20 pm

Yeah UGH her hair is not thick at all. Who does she think she's kidding?

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by whocares » Sun Feb 15, 2015 2:28 pm

whateverthenok wrote:"I have very very thick hair" LMAO LOL WHITE GIRLS BE LIKE

just kidding I know some white girls do have really thick hair but Rachel's hair is not thick at all? Not even a little bit? The time it took her to curl her hair is about 1/4 of what it takes me to do mine and it's about the same length
She probably has fine hair but a lot of it so she thinks it's thick.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by bbgorilla » Sun Feb 15, 2015 7:38 pm

At least her makeup didn't make her look sick. She finally looked well rested and healthy in the hair video.

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Post by Wtf.ever » Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:00 am

Hasn't she done that exact tutorial using the same curling wand already? It looks familiar, like most of her videos lately.

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Post by DingoPet » Mon Feb 16, 2015 9:47 am

Wtf.ever wrote:Hasn't she done that exact tutorial using the same curling wand already? It looks familiar, like most of her videos lately.
I haven't watched the video, but just going by the thumbnail, I was coming here to ask this same thing. It looks like her last two or three half-arsed hair tutorials.

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Post by Tenebre » Mon Feb 16, 2015 9:57 am

So now if Chris wants to have sex with other girls she is ok with it?

I can't imagine that, she seems like the jealous type imo. She only wants an *open relationship* so she can fool around with girls and say she's bisexual :roll:

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Post by tigresslily20 » Mon Feb 16, 2015 11:49 am

Tenebre wrote:So now if Chris wants to have sex with other girls she is ok with it?

I can't imagine that, she seems like the jealous type imo. She only wants an *open relationship* so she can fool around with girls and say she's bisexual :roll:
I agree. She's totally taking advantage of her supposed "sexuality" to mess around and still have Chris on the back burner. They need to admit that they're no longer attracted to each other and just break up already so that Chris can be with someone better and Rachel and live out her lesbian fantasies.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by Wtf.ever » Mon Feb 16, 2015 2:52 pm

I think she has Chris so manipulated that he would feel like a bad person if he told her they should be monogamous. She probably turned on those fake tears she likes to brag about and twisted it all up so that she gets to rely on Chris financially and still fool around with girls if the situation presents itself.

I think that eventually she will find a girl that she wants to be with, leave Chris and then regret it because very few people would tolerate Rachel or her shit the way Chris does.

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Re: ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by Newnonkc » Mon Feb 16, 2015 3:47 pm

I can't imagine Rachel letting Chris be with other girls unless she was included. Or at least heavily involved in selecting them.

Just picture Chris bringing home some mild mannered petite girl who is the complete antithesis of Rachel. Her insecurities would go wild and she would completely rage.

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Post by FrozenLeaves » Mon Feb 16, 2015 3:55 pm

Maybe this is a weird way to look at it, but it seems wrong to have an open relationship when only one partner has a job. Like Rachel's YT probably doesn't bring in that much, and she's at home all week, every week. It just seems like leeching. You know, having your cake and eating it too. Rachel gets to laze around AND sleep around, contributing pretty much nothing. While Chris works, has to be responsible for most of the bills, and probably doesn't have time to be hooking up. Seems unfair. Like if you want to be in an open relationship, fine that's your business, but it shouldn't be so one sided. Like you guys were saying, it's like it's been set up just for her to mess around under the guise of being comfortable with her sexuality.

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ICALLITNEVERHAVINGAJOB General Thread Part 9

Post by Newnonkc » Mon Feb 16, 2015 6:54 pm

^ I agree. It's like she has so much time to herself, to wallow and dream up these ideas and push them onto Chris. He gets the shitty end of the deal in almost every way, bc at the end of the day she's still lazing around the apartment, contributing the bare minimum with the least amount of work possible, and gets to have her cake and eat it too, relationship wise.

I hope they break up. And that's sad to me because I used to really, really like Rachel.

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