I watched a bit of that healthy gamer stream yesterday. He talked about how "haters" have a point sometimes and can be helpful knowing you did something wrong, is it really the case, Seán? Do you actually listen to concerns without getting defensive and without pulling excuses?? I hope so. Because you sounds pretty defensive when people call you out on shit. I guess we'll know when you do something problematic in the future.
On the contrary, he said stan culture is harmful and isn't helpful in any way. Hear that, stans? Stop revolving your life around someone who doesn't know about your existence.
He was also talking about how he used to upload consistently and how he realized that he doesn't want to do that anymore because there are more important things outside of that. The host asked him what made him realize that. He said he got physically and mentally exhausted, then him being in a "really healthy relationship that gives him support and really wanting to spend time in that". Well, if Gab made him feel that he shouldn't pressure himself in making content, then good for him. Personally, I don't buy the fact that the relationship is healthy. Like you stopped making content so you can spend more time with her, but she only lasted two days until she wanted to stream so badly but didn't do so she won't look bad while you were going through a really hard time, idk that seems inequal to me. Who am I to judge, though. Of course I don't live with them so I don't know how they behave privately lol, but whatever.
He mentioned that he feels awful when people talk over him and dismiss his opinions. He said streaming groups and conferences are where he mostly get talked over but blamed it on buffering issues. I know people are gonna shit on me for blaming Gab on this, but I don't care. I watched the green hair charity stream just to make sure, and oh boy. She kept dismissing his opinions and suggestions and she was really assertive and stubborn with her opinions during the stream. Examples:
+Seán: I don't think it's going to be green enough.
+Gab: No No it will it already looks green.
In the end it didn't look green enough.
+Seán: chat says we should add more dye I think we should listen to them.
+Gab: No we won't it will look great.
And it didn't look great lol they ended up adding more dye later.
Also, her sitting there doing absolutely nothing while Seán is dyeing his own hair is so cringy like why aren't you helping?? She was just sitting there the whole time doing absolutely nothing.
She definitely talks over everyone, not just Seán. She keeps holding onto her opinion and dismiss other's.
Their relationship isn't healthy. She couldn't stomach the fact that he's spending time with friends instead of her so she told him to change schedule. Seán streams for long hours in the late night, said it bothered him that he get to bed after her, but continued to stream so late anyways. You could stream for less hours so you could spend time with her, but you didn't. How is that healthy?? Being in a relationship with someone for clout is healthy?? No ma'am. Keep convincing yourself that. It's only going to tear you down mentally until you collapse in the end.
I know I sound contradicting that I criticized both him spending too much time with her and too little time with her, I really think he can easily balance it out. It just doesn't add up.
On the contrary, he said stan culture is harmful and isn't helpful in any way. Hear that, stans? Stop revolving your life around someone who doesn't know about your existence.
He was also talking about how he used to upload consistently and how he realized that he doesn't want to do that anymore because there are more important things outside of that. The host asked him what made him realize that. He said he got physically and mentally exhausted, then him being in a "really healthy relationship that gives him support and really wanting to spend time in that". Well, if Gab made him feel that he shouldn't pressure himself in making content, then good for him. Personally, I don't buy the fact that the relationship is healthy. Like you stopped making content so you can spend more time with her, but she only lasted two days until she wanted to stream so badly but didn't do so she won't look bad while you were going through a really hard time, idk that seems inequal to me. Who am I to judge, though. Of course I don't live with them so I don't know how they behave privately lol, but whatever.
He mentioned that he feels awful when people talk over him and dismiss his opinions. He said streaming groups and conferences are where he mostly get talked over but blamed it on buffering issues. I know people are gonna shit on me for blaming Gab on this, but I don't care. I watched the green hair charity stream just to make sure, and oh boy. She kept dismissing his opinions and suggestions and she was really assertive and stubborn with her opinions during the stream. Examples:
+Seán: I don't think it's going to be green enough.
+Gab: No No it will it already looks green.
In the end it didn't look green enough.
+Seán: chat says we should add more dye I think we should listen to them.
+Gab: No we won't it will look great.
And it didn't look great lol they ended up adding more dye later.
Also, her sitting there doing absolutely nothing while Seán is dyeing his own hair is so cringy like why aren't you helping?? She was just sitting there the whole time doing absolutely nothing.
She definitely talks over everyone, not just Seán. She keeps holding onto her opinion and dismiss other's.
Their relationship isn't healthy. She couldn't stomach the fact that he's spending time with friends instead of her so she told him to change schedule. Seán streams for long hours in the late night, said it bothered him that he get to bed after her, but continued to stream so late anyways. You could stream for less hours so you could spend time with her, but you didn't. How is that healthy?? Being in a relationship with someone for clout is healthy?? No ma'am. Keep convincing yourself that. It's only going to tear you down mentally until you collapse in the end.
I know I sound contradicting that I criticized both him spending too much time with her and too little time with her, I really think he can easily balance it out. It just doesn't add up.
this has nothing to do with whether the relationship his healthy or not it just shows that Jack made a decision regarding his work life and so did Gab...Jack had the same problem about wanting to jump into recording or thinking about work during his first couple of "breaks" maybe Gab struggles with the exact same thing he does or parasocial relationships and boundaries, a lot of creators become addicted or tied to their audiences. Just because she "wanted to stream" doesn't mean she didn't give Jack her undivided attention or that she's horrible. she could simply just enjoy playing games and streaming. 
If you have to sit and nitpick these sorts of things it's probably because they don't work well together
She has "bragged" about hanging out with the Brighton group (Marzia) so why wouldn't she just drive to their house or if she doesn't want to hangout then she could just drop Jack off or Felix could pick him up... Jack also uses Uber's too. 
