1980s Hairscrunchie - I do see your point re; the original poster and reaching - I personally wouldn’t comment on YTs meltdown at all - but I think Lydia choosing to respond to that is bizarre. Of all the comments, she should have let that one go. Let alone actually respond with how her own level of hurt/ anxiety at comments on YT saying she has made an ad is somehow worthy of comparison to a women who has lost a partner...
If you don’t think she is a narcissist, then you’ve (hopefully) been lucky enough not to meet one! But I get that you see it differently and can see why. I do still think responding to that particular comment with a thinly veiled swipe is totally and utterly bizarre and distasteful.
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@ken
I totally agree that she’s in control of her situation. Even though she’s privileged beyond comparison it just reads as a cry for help.
She’s going to obviously get some hate for moaning about not being able to handle the consequences of her actions.
Essentially it’s an AD and she took it to the next level of an emotional breakdown to express how distressed she was. However like you mentioned it’s all within her control and her actions.
I’ve never seen her change her mind frame once in the years I’ve watched her. It’s her ignorance to others that I think causes her a ton of grief and a huge amount of dislike.
She’s going to attract the energy she puts out which is why I think it’s to be expected that she receives backlash for most of her content. I think we can both agree she’s got a massive case of foot in mouth disease. I don’t think any management will pick her up because of this imo.
For a woman with so many blessings in her life, she doesn’t take anything into perspective.
Anyway
Does anyone know why she chose that breed of cat besides it’s price tag?
I totally agree that she’s in control of her situation. Even though she’s privileged beyond comparison it just reads as a cry for help.
She’s going to obviously get some hate for moaning about not being able to handle the consequences of her actions.
Essentially it’s an AD and she took it to the next level of an emotional breakdown to express how distressed she was. However like you mentioned it’s all within her control and her actions.
I’ve never seen her change her mind frame once in the years I’ve watched her. It’s her ignorance to others that I think causes her a ton of grief and a huge amount of dislike.
She’s going to attract the energy she puts out which is why I think it’s to be expected that she receives backlash for most of her content. I think we can both agree she’s got a massive case of foot in mouth disease. I don’t think any management will pick her up because of this imo.
For a woman with so many blessings in her life, she doesn’t take anything into perspective.
Anyway
Does anyone know why she chose that breed of cat besides it’s price tag?
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Narcissistic yes. Sociopath nah?plantlady4eva wrote:1980s Hairscrunchie - I do see your point re; the original poster and reaching - I personally wouldn’t comment on YTs meltdown at all - but I think Lydia choosing to respond to that is bizarre. Of all the comments she should have let that one go, let alone actually respond about your own level of hurt at comments saying it’s an ad being comparable...
If you don’t think she is a narcissistic, then you’ve been lucky enough not to meet one! But I get that you see it differently and can see why. I do still think responding to that particular comment with a thinly veiled swipe is totally and utterly bizarre and distasteful.
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I went back to read again to see if there was a thinly veiled swipe and you’re correct.
It’s amazing that through these years she hasn’t learned any form of composure or better yet some form of decorum. There are YTers that have just as much experience as her and they have developed a thick skin and learned appropriate ways to respond to conflict.
If she truly has experience in marketing and public relations then it’s even more shameful she doesn’t actually have the tools to handle this. There are ethical classes in marketing that are intended to make their graduates think ethically and use philosophy influences to form better thoughts. These classes are extremely difficult to pass as you cannot pretend to think ethically or morally, you either have it or you don’t.
I don’t think she has it
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I don’t think it’s for anyone to question whether the woman who lost her partner should have compared her issues with Lydia. Struggles are relative but Lydia is the one with the power here. She has 80k+ followers on twitter and many of them often wade in to her defence witch-hunt style, so in this instance she had a responsibility to deal with this comment sensitively. Her replies and bringing the issues back to herself came across as incredibly belittling in my opinion and in such a public forum just wasn’t appropriate. She should have either messaged her privately or not responded if she was in the wrong mindset. I’d also question those closest to her and wonder what sort of advice they’re giving her. Someone needs to offer stronger support otherwise she’s going to continue using her social media strength in a negative way.1980shairscrunchie wrote:@ken
I totally agree that she’s in control of her situation. Even though she’s privileged beyond comparison it just reads as a cry for help.
She’s going to obviously get some hate for moaning about not being able to handle the consequences of her actions.
Essentially it’s an AD and she took it to the next level of an emotional breakdown to express how distressed she was. However like you mentioned it’s all within her control and her actions.
I’ve never seen her change her mind frame once in the years I’ve watched her. It’s her ignorance to others that I think causes her a ton of grief and a huge amount of dislike.
She’s going to attract the energy she puts out which is why I think it’s to be expected that she receives backlash for most of her content. I think we can both agree she’s got a massive case of foot in mouth disease. I don’t think any management will pick her up because of this imo.
For a woman with so many blessings in her life, she doesn’t take anything into perspective.
Anyway
Does anyone know why she chose that breed of cat besides it’s price tag?
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I recognise this ladies username. She replies alot to Lidl's tweets, supporting & loyally defending each time lidl cries 'bullying'... so must feel really dissapointed in her own judgement. We've all been there..
Lydia cons people with the idea of bored 'trolls/haters' that don't actually exist for sympathy. Take this site-if you're an angry lydia lover storming into GG expecting 'f*cking ugly b*tch' posts you're in for a shock. (Ok lydiathefake not included)
Lydia cons people with the idea of bored 'trolls/haters' that don't actually exist for sympathy. Take this site-if you're an angry lydia lover storming into GG expecting 'f*cking ugly b*tch' posts you're in for a shock. (Ok lydiathefake not included)
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I agree, she should have messaged the person privately, rather than having it out on Twitter with her in that way, especially given how her followers will round on people, as some of them have already done on the lady who posted about her husband. This is what a blogger without management looks like I feel, a manager would have been having words the moment they saw her tweeted response. Could you imagine having to be her manager though, you'd never get any sleep, you'd be on high alert all the time.
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God I'm so glad Lydia had another "meltdown"... this thread has been dry recently. Pretty sure she was mad that this thread wasn't as active and decided to have another "controversy". She's such a joke and needs help.
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I'm convinced she knows that her meltdowns bring her more followers as they sub to watch the car crash videos, or just to find out what the hell all the noise is about on Twitter. On Twitter, she's like Trump's apprentice without access to the red button.
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This thread has been brought to you by Lidl Meltdown's lifeless updates and Flog life in the house of flies.
I bet she saved all those dead flies for Ali to clean up when he gets home from London.
I bet she saved all those dead flies for Ali to clean up when he gets home from London.
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Well its clear as day.. she still need mental help. Its not right for her to be so upset over people pointing out a click bait title. And it is as simple as, if she doesn't like her job or an aspect of it upset her, then quit. Something has to change for her.. she has these meltdowns for the same reasons week in week out, she's right, she can't go on like this BUT she does nothing to change it.... and then she goes on harping on about how she is in a great mental state these days... which is it lidl???
If i went to work and i was regularly upset by any aspect of it then i would leave, it really is that simple. If she is so insistent on doing this, then get mental help, grow a thicker skin.. stop bullshitting your subs or turn off the comments. There are options for her.. not everyone is going to love the utter drivel, which is getting worse by the week, that she puts out.
As for replying to that poor women, wtf is wrong with her?!! She again HARPS on about how women should stick together, women should support each other blah blah blah.. well that response just showed her true colours.... even if she wrote back.. 'sorry to hear that.. lets cry together' that would have been a millions time better and she would have still been able to keep the pity party going. No i don't agree with oneupmanship on who's having the worst time but Lydia really needs to get some prospective. She has no empathy or compassion for anyone but herself.
PS.. i only quickly logged on before bed.. hadn't been on for a while and thought quick read of half a page!!! wow 5 pages.. she really knows how to move this thread... i weren't going to open the next thread but if anyone wants an eggy recap.. I'm all for it!!! lol!!
If i went to work and i was regularly upset by any aspect of it then i would leave, it really is that simple. If she is so insistent on doing this, then get mental help, grow a thicker skin.. stop bullshitting your subs or turn off the comments. There are options for her.. not everyone is going to love the utter drivel, which is getting worse by the week, that she puts out.
As for replying to that poor women, wtf is wrong with her?!! She again HARPS on about how women should stick together, women should support each other blah blah blah.. well that response just showed her true colours.... even if she wrote back.. 'sorry to hear that.. lets cry together' that would have been a millions time better and she would have still been able to keep the pity party going. No i don't agree with oneupmanship on who's having the worst time but Lydia really needs to get some prospective. She has no empathy or compassion for anyone but herself.
PS.. i only quickly logged on before bed.. hadn't been on for a while and thought quick read of half a page!!! wow 5 pages.. she really knows how to move this thread... i weren't going to open the next thread but if anyone wants an eggy recap.. I'm all for it!!! lol!!
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Not ignoring your respond. Didn’t want to drag anything on and annoy anyoneOohthedrama_ wrote:Ladies I just killed a fly,
I’m so incredible upset and hurt right now,
I sprayed the bastard for a solid 5 min with fly spray and then threw on a spot of zooflora on so he at least went out smelling good.
But as I’ve been told in my Twitter comments today, I’m too pure for this world.
In the fifth circle of hell my personality fits right in.
I will be taking a short break away from YouTube to process this loss and the emptiness it leaves in my home.
Thank you my lovelies. It’s just an incredibly hard time for me right now after that bastard husband of mine destroyed my driveway.
Can’t I just catch a break from this constant stress. You all don’t realize the struggles I face everyday when I leave my bed at noon
But I had a wee bit of pee come out whilst laughing to this.
I did a full pac man laugh
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Of course we want an eggy recap!eggybeggy wrote:Well its clear as day.. she still need mental help. Its not right for her to be so upset over people pointing out a click bait title. And it is as simple as, if she doesn't like her job or an aspect of it upset her, then quit. Something has to change for her.. she has these meltdowns for the same reasons week in week out, she's right, she can't go on like this BUT she does nothing to change it.... and then she goes on harping on about how she is in a great mental state these days... which is it lidl???
If i went to work and i was regularly upset by any aspect of it then i would leave, it really is that simple. If she is so insistent on doing this, then get mental help, grow a thicker skin.. stop bullshitting your subs or turn off the comments. There are options for her.. not everyone is going to love the utter drivel, which is getting worse by the week, that she puts out.
As for replying to that poor women, wtf is wrong with her?!! She again HARPS on about how women should stick together, women should support each other blah blah blah.. well that response just showed her true colours.... even if she wrote back.. 'sorry to hear that.. lets cry together' that would have been a millions time better and she would have still been able to keep the pity party going. No i don't agree with oneupmanship on who's having the worst time but Lydia really needs to get some prospective. She has no empathy or compassion for anyone but herself.
PS.. i only quickly logged on before bed.. hadn't been on for a while and thought quick read of half a page!!! wow 5 pages.. she really knows how to move this thread... i weren't going to open the next thread but if anyone wants an eggy recap.. I'm all for it!!! lol!!
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Talking of Scarrie, I blame the little elf for all this AD takeover bolox. It's her contacting every brand under the sun & flaunting her 'clients' sub number/engagement rate blah blah all her clever facts and figures. Scarrie doesn't think long term about repeat trade & lidl's subs trust in her..she's cashing in on the present like it could all end tomorrow.
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Anyone else get that vibe? Like why is seemingly intelligent Scarrie opening emails for her mate?
Is that what a university education gives you? Opportunities like that?
Is that what a university education gives you? Opportunities like that?
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That’s some pretty deep thoughts your having there for this time of nightGeorgeePorgee wrote:Anyone else get that vibe? Like why is seemingly intelligent Scarrie opening emails for her mate?
Is that what a university education gives you? Opportunities like that?