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Negative people everywher

Post by Savage1 » Sat Apr 02, 2016 6:31 am

Okay so most of my 'friends' are really negative and horrible. A lot of them are double sided and nice tk me but a bish behind my back. I really really want to cut them off and start working on myself. But all those friends who are nice to me arent really as close to me as im close to them. this one girl im friends with im probably her 28473838th choice. I really wish i was more outgoing and confident.. Im working on it.
Do you guys have any unnessary drama happening in your lives rn?? :?

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Re: Negative people everywher

Post by asdfasdfasdf » Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:19 am

yes forsure

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Post by dollhouse » Sat Apr 02, 2016 8:17 pm

Savage1 wrote:Okay so most of my 'friends' are really negative and horrible. A lot of them are double sided and nice tk me but a bish behind my back. I really really want to cut them off and start working on myself. But all those friends who are nice to me arent really as close to me as im close to them. this one girl im friends with im probably her 28473838th choice. I really wish i was more outgoing and confident.. Im working on it.
Do you guys have any unnessary drama happening in your lives rn?? :?
It gets better when you're older and you see people less often

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Re: Negative people everywher

Post by Demonita » Sun Apr 03, 2016 2:37 pm

Hmm i feel you. I know where you are coming from. I had "friends" like that in my highschool years, they were toxic and negative as f. I just stopped talking to them as soon as i realized how stupid and childish they were. If you have people like that as your friends you should really consider to cancel them from your life. I mean they arent worth your time, believe me. Eventually you will find new friends, dont worry about that. :D
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Re: Negative people everywher

Post by GreaderG » Tue Apr 05, 2016 7:35 pm

As it does get better as you get older to some extent, there will still always be one or two toxic people in yout life family member, coworker, etc. I find ot easiest to cut out the ones I'm not required to communicate with and keep a safe distance from the others.

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Post by Catattack2010 » Thu Sep 06, 2018 9:09 pm

Savage1 wrote:Okay so most of my 'friends' are really negative and horrible. A lot of them are double sided and nice tk me but a bish behind my back. I really really want to cut them off and start working on myself. But all those friends who are nice to me arent really as close to me as im close to them. this one girl im friends with im probably her 28473838th choice. I really wish i was more outgoing and confident.. Im working on it.
Do you guys have any unnessary drama happening in your lives rn?? :?
I just wrote a post about this on the board. I am so tired of having such awful toxic friendships. I feel like I'm attracting all the wrong people and idky. I do agree that at times we see people less and less and we grow more confident with our boundaries including friendships. It's just hard to meet chill, smart, nice and funny friends. It's like a diamond in the rough... I know exactly what your going through.

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