Hello all, hoping for some advice here.
2 years ago (when I was only 17) my sisters husband started texting me. He said he got my # from her phone. (Without her knowing) he texted me some pretty weird things. Asking me if was a virgin watched porn etc. Gave me weird compliments. So I blocked his # then he added me on Facebook. So I blocked him there to.
Now two years later I guess he made a new Facebook & has started messaging me again. He messaged me something about how my cleavage in my profile picture turned him on. (Yuck,I know)
now he's texting me. He must've found my # on Facebook. I want to tell my mom so she'll tell my sister but I don't know if its the right thing to do. They live all the way in Indiana so its not like he'll ever do anything to me in person. I've been taking screen shots of the recent things he's been saying. I'm worried if I let my sister know she'll brush it off since its nothing physical & then me causing a strain in their relationship would have been for nothing.
What do I do?
my sisters husband is a creep?
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Re: my sisters husband is a creep?
Um. I would hope that if my husband was being creepy with my sister that she would tell me.
Definitely go with telling your mom as a mediator and help your sister out.
I'm sorry this is happening to you.
Definitely go with telling your mom as a mediator and help your sister out.
I'm sorry this is happening to you.
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I think you should tell your mom and sister. What he is doing is NOT okay and really freaking creepy. It could even escalate so it would be better to tell your mother and end it now.
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Re: my sisters husband is a creep?
Even if it causes problems, you need to tell your sister. Keep every text and message your brother in law sends you! If my husband did anything like this I would absolutely want to know. He's being unfaithful and who knows if he's doing this (or more!) with someone else. Your sister deserves to know. That's awful he's doing that to you and your family! I hope everything goes okay!
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Thank you all! Forgot to me mention he's between the age of 30-40. Quit a bit older then me.
I've been saving everything. He was asking me to send him pictures earlier & was trying to talk dirty with me. I stopped replying. I'll be going to mom tomorrow & telling her. Hopefully everything goes fine. Again, thank you!
I've been saving everything. He was asking me to send him pictures earlier & was trying to talk dirty with me. I stopped replying. I'll be going to mom tomorrow & telling her. Hopefully everything goes fine. Again, thank you!
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Re: my sisters husband is a creep?
I hope your talk goes well! At least you have proof so he can't deny it
Re: my sisters husband is a creep?
Good on your for keeping your head straight about this, saving all the interactions, and not engaging him. He's a pig and needs to be exposed.xokisstherain wrote:Thank you all! Forgot to me mention he's between the age of 30-40. Quit a bit older then me.
I've been saving everything. He was asking me to send him pictures earlier & was trying to talk dirty with me. I stopped replying. I'll be going to mom tomorrow & telling her. Hopefully everything goes fine. Again, thank you!
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