whodoievencarebutido wrote:I get a controlling vibe from Grant as well. He totally reminds me of an ex I have & it's SO weird when I see him. LeighAnn not having a sense of self is going to shape her into whatever he wants her to be. That is sort of abusive in my eyes. It's so weird to me that she's so lost on who she is. I started following her because I loved how "weird" she was. She had so many interesting things about her. So, I subscribed. I just don't know anymore. It's becoming tough to relate to her. I loved when she first started dating Grant & when they would go on adventures. I loved when she cut her bangs & looked kinda edgy. Now, she's just a rich/bored housewife who is a lot less independent than I once thought she was. I get that when we get into a relationship we can kinda "lose ourselves" just a little, but eventually it comes back once the honeymoon phase wears off. I don't feel that'll happen with her. I think she's going to morph into whatever it is he's looking for. Such a bummer.
Also, isn't it so cringey to think that they read this & see all of what we say in black & white? You know they totally do.
I feel the exact same way. I also have an ex who Grant reminds me of.
It was over two years ago, but I remember how my ex would make “jokes” similar to Grant’s, and then he would act like I’m overreacting because I’d get upset at him for saying them. He got worse to the point of emotional abuse and I dumped him asap.
I also don’t like how Grant treats Leigh Ann like she’s a sexual object right on camera where the public can see it (referring to the Cancun vlog). To me, it seems like “Look, this is my toy and I can do *whatever* I want to her.”
Again, I could be paranoid but he seriously gives me creep vibes.
Well, I’m not totally sure they read this but if they do, I hope she pays close attention to what I’m saying.