Nope, I don't think it's that simple. I don't commend just anyone who relieves emotional stress in public. It's not always courage, Gurucide - sometimes it's flat out egocentric, toxic or flat out unhealthy.Gurucide wrote:She uses youtube as a release which probably serves as some type of therapy for her. I can see why she would do it, because its not always that easy or even possible to talk to the persons who are involved. Sometimes, just talking to strangers (us) is all she needs to relieve some type of stress. Could she do it privately, with a therapist or physician...sure. But, would the effect be the same? Probably not. I commend her on her courage and ability to do that, because few can. Still, does it make it right...maybe not. I don't know. That's how I see it.
The means DO need to be right to validate the ends. Great if she feels better. She's dealing with her issues so publicly to reassure herself and get reassured. Not because she actually wants to address a problem. Because she's a mess and she feel better spilling the mess while doing something that does not call for it at all.
If she wants to air her issues for herself or anyone else, at the end of the day, she should "package" it as such. Right now what she's doing is she is literally prettying up the face of instability. She is dancing around the issue and attracting girls who want to look like her and be like her, and they subliminally pick up her mess as well.
To me it's like being a highschool teacher and yelling at kids because your parents were bad people. I'm sure it feels very relieving. It doesn't actually solve the teacher's problem or really teach the kids anything, though.