I've grown up with two disabled parents; except my dad was disabled once I was much older. Disability is extremely hard to get in my state, and the constant scrutiny of disabled people for not 'preforming' their disability to the acceptability of the public grates on me sometimes. My dad is terrified if he carries in groceries someone will call and say he isn't disabled, for example. Some busybody put in a review on my moms benefits and felt really stupid when she died like a week later.VickyIsAwesome wrote: ↑Tue Aug 03, 2021 9:28 pm@PixieWithFangs i totally agree with what you are saying
My concern with the Frey's adopting is, they seem like really sweet people, but they also seem very very attached to their religious beliefs, and I don't know what will happen if the child they adopt comes out on the LGBTQ+ spectrum for example. It's something I always have a concern with in the back of my mind when people adopt children and make it a part of their religious calling.