Are you sure she allows them to pee everywhere? I remember when she got the dogs, she would constantly film them pooping/peeing on the pad.mysweetgirl-ja wrote:Lindy always focus her time on social media but neglect taking care of her kids & dogs.
She has the dogs for many years but never train them well & allow the dogs to pee everywhere in the house. So I’m not surprised to see Domo’s hair got so matted as I believe she won’t spend time on brushing his hair or teeth.
As for the kids, Isaac seems always be the caretaker of Ayla but not Lindy. Isaac would teach Ayla how to wash her hands & told Lindy that she just ate sands by mistake. Isaac would show Ayla how & where to mop the floor...I never saw Lindy pay attention to her kid’s child development, for example the speech development of Isaac when he was still a toddler. A child’s speech development was crucial during his first six years.
She has been too busy on social media, her dancing, make up or hair dye....It has been obvious to see her almost wears full make up every day after the divorce. Perhaps seeking male attention
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There have been instances where I’ve seen on vlogs her picking up dog shit. I think I’m the newest video she even jokes about the dog taking a shit inside the house later. So I don’t think she properly trained them. My Mini Poodle is 4 months old and since I got her at two months old, she only had 5 accidents in the house. Her accidents happened within the first week of me having her. There is no excuse for not being able to take your dogs outside consistently when she “works” from home.yurirenjyo wrote: ↑Thu Jul 09, 2020 5:55 pmAre you sure she allows them to pee everywhere? I remember when she got the dogs, she would constantly film them pooping/peeing on the pad.mysweetgirl-ja wrote:Lindy always focus her time on social media but neglect taking care of her kids & dogs.
She has the dogs for many years but never train them well & allow the dogs to pee everywhere in the house. So I’m not surprised to see Domo’s hair got so matted as I believe she won’t spend time on brushing his hair or teeth.
As for the kids, Isaac seems always be the caretaker of Ayla but not Lindy. Isaac would teach Ayla how to wash her hands & told Lindy that she just ate sands by mistake. Isaac would show Ayla how & where to mop the floor...I never saw Lindy pay attention to her kid’s child development, for example the speech development of Isaac when he was still a toddler. A child’s speech development was crucial during his first six years.
She has been too busy on social media, her dancing, make up or hair dye....It has been obvious to see her almost wears full make up every day after the divorce. Perhaps seeking male attention
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You know what, I think there was a time Domo was defecating on the floors constantly for some reason. I think it was because Domo was stressed and Tim wanted to get rid of him for doing that.cellophaneflowers wrote:There have been instances where I’ve seen on vlogs her picking up dog shit. I think I’m the newest video she even jokes about the dog taking a shit inside the house later. So I don’t think she properly trained them. My Mini Poodle is 4 months old and since I got her at two months old, she only had 5 accidents in the house. Her accidents happened within the first week of me having her. There is no excuse for not being able to take your dogs outside consistently when she “works” from home.yurirenjyo wrote: ↑Thu Jul 09, 2020 5:55 pmAre you sure she allows them to pee everywhere? I remember when she got the dogs, she would constantly film them pooping/peeing on the pad.mysweetgirl-ja wrote:Lindy always focus her time on social media but neglect taking care of her kids & dogs.
She has the dogs for many years but never train them well & allow the dogs to pee everywhere in the house. So I’m not surprised to see Domo’s hair got so matted as I believe she won’t spend time on brushing his hair or teeth.
As for the kids, Isaac seems always be the caretaker of Ayla but not Lindy. Isaac would teach Ayla how to wash her hands & told Lindy that she just ate sands by mistake. Isaac would show Ayla how & where to mop the floor...I never saw Lindy pay attention to her kid’s child development, for example the speech development of Isaac when he was still a toddler. A child’s speech development was crucial during his first six years.
She has been too busy on social media, her dancing, make up or hair dye....It has been obvious to see her almost wears full make up every day after the divorce. Perhaps seeking male attention
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yurirenjyo wrote: ↑Thu Jul 09, 2020 5:55 pmJust because Lindy filmed her dogs pooping/peeing on the pads when she first got them 9 years ago doesn't mean that is still happening now. As a new dog owner, of course she was elated to start "training" her dogs for the camera. Also, this was in HK when they were mostly indoors in the apartment. (I just happened to re-watch her "I'm an elf" video where you can see the dogs peeing on the pads.)mysweetgirl-ja wrote: I remember when she got the dogs, she would constantly film them pooping/peeing on the pad.
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i haven't been following her for a while. Got a rude shock when I searched bubbeauty on youtube and the word "divorce" showed up.
Then i tried looking and it doesn't seem anything got explained (at least in that video of hers)
Is there a summary somewhere? Is Tim in HK or in ireland with her?
how is tim going to be with the kids if he's still in HK and flying is difficult with covid going on.
i know GG speculates about their separation for a long time but it's just shocking to me.
I used to watch her and stylesuzi vlogs , it's so weird both are divorced now.
Then i tried looking and it doesn't seem anything got explained (at least in that video of hers)
Is there a summary somewhere? Is Tim in HK or in ireland with her?
how is tim going to be with the kids if he's still in HK and flying is difficult with covid going on.
i know GG speculates about their separation for a long time but it's just shocking to me.
I used to watch her and stylesuzi vlogs , it's so weird both are divorced now.
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Tim is in Ireland living at his parent's house or his own place at the moment. Lindy still lives at their house. They split the kids' care 2 to 3 days a week.guestin wrote: ↑Wed Jul 15, 2020 6:26 pmi haven't been following her for a while. Got a rude shock when I searched bubbeauty on youtube and the word "divorce" showed up.
Then i tried looking and it doesn't seem anything got explained (at least in that video of hers)
Is there a summary somewhere? Is Tim in HK or in ireland with her?
how is tim going to be with the kids if he's still in HK and flying is difficult with covid going on.
i know GG speculates about their separation for a long time but it's just shocking to me.
I used to watch her and stylesuzi vlogs , it's so weird both are divorced now.
A lot of us GGers who used to participate in this thread have moved to PULL (GG was unstable and frustrating to load for some time). You can read some of the more recent events there: https://prettyuglylittleliar.net/topic/ ... /?page=232
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Ahhhh Pull got taken down. So it’s back to gg. You can also catch me on gg’s discord. https://discord.gg/Jp35hY
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I wish PULL gave us a warning before they pulled the plug. See y’all on discord.
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We could use tattle. It's pretty fast! https://tattle.life/
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Good. Are we going to start by opening a new post?mad pyjamas wrote: ↑Fri Jul 24, 2020 7:28 pmWe could use tattle. It's pretty fast! https://tattle.life/
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I guess everyone has left this website but for anyone still here i thought I'd post the update that bubz is getting a tummy tuck in about a weeks time. Apparently it'll be a slow recovery, up to a year to fully recover. Its going to be virtually impossible for her to look after the kids/dogs/house, also no working out with Kyle. I guess she really cares about her stomach skin.
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The tummy tuck needs a year to recover? I got no idea on this, but if that’s the case how can she take care of her kids & the dogs during the recovery time?! I don’t understand why she puts “beauty” in her first priority. Being a mom w two kids & two dogs to take care, she needs to prioritise what’s more important in her life.Fruitysherbet wrote: ↑Sun Aug 09, 2020 6:00 amI guess everyone has left this website but for anyone still here i thought I'd post the update that bubz is getting a tummy tuck in about a weeks time. Apparently it'll be a slow recovery, up to a year to fully recover. Its going to be virtually impossible for her to look after the kids/dogs/house, also no working out with Kyle. I guess she really cares about her stomach skin.
Perhaps she plans to ask Tim & his parents to take care of the two kids in the coming months, as a “revenge” to Tim of being always absent for his “business trips” last year
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Yep 7:19 of this video she says it'll take up to a year! Madness! It's basically just like opting out of being a parent for a long while.. Who does that? The kids are so young! Tim is going to be so pissed haha
Also it's Isaaca birthday at the end of the month and his present will be a parent who is in too much pain to even cuddle him.
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Just watched her latest vlog that she shared what she is going to pack up to the hospital. Over the whole sharing she mentioned NOTHING about who is going to take care of the kids & dogs. Really cannot agree w her mindset of what’s more important of being a parent. She may think the tummy tuck is kinda a self-reward she deserved after going thru the pain of the divorce. But did she think of the kids’ needs? At this stage what her kids need the most is to be accompanied by their mommy. Perhaps Budz may think she’d become more attractive to males after she gets a prettier body shape & eventually meet another guy who then become the kids’ stepfather. I just feel the whole thing pathetic
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Agree. She also doesn't mention who's going to pick her up from the hospital or who's going to help her prepare meals and look after her in general for the first couple of days/weeks where she'll likely be in the most pain when recovering. My guess is that she'll either have to rely on herself (tough situation) or her mom will look after her... I don't understand why she thinks this is an okay thing to do as a single mom responsible for two very young kids.
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Her mom may look after her in the hospital after the tummy tuck. But even if the kids can stay at Tim and his parents’ place during her recovery, the dogs need somebody to take care as well. Is the operation so important to her? Both of her kids are young & need a mother to nurture & give her best to them, but unfortunately Budz only cares about her look. After her divorce I always see her wearing full make up w curly hair, plus sexy shorts in her IGs or vlogs. When she was still living w Tim, she had lighter make up & would sometimes wear pyjamas only. Apparently this is her sign of seeking male attention. All in all, I feel bad for the kids esp Isaac to grow up in such a special “family”
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Imagine being Isaac, an already sensitive child whose parents have just divorced, and at the same time pulled out of any school/groups because of Covid, and limited contact to people outside of his main carers. Then in the midst of this confusion, suddenly mum is stuck in bed, can't make him dinner, no bedtime cuddles or attention whatsoever. Living potentially full time in dads house, having to help with Ayla even more than he already does (as we all know Tim is a useless parent). This child is going to have serious emotional issues after all this. Then imagine when he grows up, realises all the choices bubz is making, then sees the picture of himself holding the penis soap. Guh
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I actually think Tim is a better parent than Lindy. He's actually hands-on and teaches then things, e.g. every time Ayla comes back from being in his care, her language skills improve dramatically. Lindy is a non-present mother. She sits there and films her kids being "cute" and giggles. She never gets down to their level to actually play with them meaningfully.Fruitysherbet wrote: ↑Tue Aug 11, 2020 9:41 amImagine being Isaac, an already sensitive child whose parents have just divorced, and at the same time pulled out of any school/groups because of Covid, and limited contact to people outside of his main carers. Then in the midst of this confusion, suddenly mum is stuck in bed, can't make him dinner, no bedtime cuddles or attention whatsoever. Living potentially full time in dads house, having to help with Ayla even more than he already does (as we all know Tim is a useless parent). This child is going to have serious emotional issues after all this. Then imagine when he grows up, realises all the choices bubz is making, then sees the picture of himself holding the penis soap. Guh
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I just wanna say this. I never see Budz spend her time to play w kids & teach them. She’d just give them toys to play & let them play by themselves to kill the time so that she can be free to do her own things.
Just finished watching her new vlog. She cried in her video & appeared emotionally to thank her fans for being supportive to her tummy tuck. She said this represents being self-loved & she deserves it. Yet I disagree w this. She can do lots of things to love her own self but not a tummy tuck which needs months of time to recover & most importantly neglect her child’s care needs. I bet she may send the kids to stay w Tim during her recovery. This may take few months. Perhaps this may be a revenge to Tim for his always absent for “business” trips last year.
What Budz needs the most at this stage is a counselling by a psychologist but not a tummy tuck. Her emotion is still in fragile stage after the divorce for just less than a year. She shouldn’t be fully recovered yet after leaving the man who spent 17 years w her since her high school.
Just finished watching her new vlog. She cried in her video & appeared emotionally to thank her fans for being supportive to her tummy tuck. She said this represents being self-loved & she deserves it. Yet I disagree w this. She can do lots of things to love her own self but not a tummy tuck which needs months of time to recover & most importantly neglect her child’s care needs. I bet she may send the kids to stay w Tim during her recovery. This may take few months. Perhaps this may be a revenge to Tim for his always absent for “business” trips last year.
What Budz needs the most at this stage is a counselling by a psychologist but not a tummy tuck. Her emotion is still in fragile stage after the divorce for just less than a year. She shouldn’t be fully recovered yet after leaving the man who spent 17 years w her since her high school.
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I'm not sure if this a cultural and/or socio-economic difference between me and bubz. But I was SHOCKED she was bawling over her tummy tuck. In the preview she puts before that vlog she was bawling, and I literally thought she was crying over divorce or children difficulties or someone she cared for had passed away. I always support people expressing their feelings, but I just don't get why she responded that way. Maybe she was PMSing idk.mysweetgirl-ja wrote: ↑Tue Aug 11, 2020 7:30 pm.
Just finished watching her new vlog. She cried in her video & appeared emotionally to thank her fans for being supportive to her tummy tuck. She said this represents being self-loved & she deserves it. Yet I disagree w this. She can do lots of things to love her own self but not a tummy tuck which needs months of time to recover & most importantly neglect her child’s care needs. I bet she may send the kids to stay w Tim during her recovery. This may take few months. Perhaps this may be a revenge to Tim for his always absent for “business” trips last year.
What Budz needs the most at this stage is a counselling by a psychologist but not a tummy tuck. Her emotion is still in fragile stage after the divorce for just less than a year. She shouldn’t be fully recovered yet after leaving the man who spent 17 years w her since her high school.
And to be fair, Bubz did see a therapist for a while before the pandemic started, but her therapist had told her she didn't need any more sessions.