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Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby Noko » Sun Jul 20, 2014 2:42 am

I thought I'd start a thread for old bubz blog posts, since a lot of this stuff was covered on the old GG but isn't on here & I thought new users might be interested in some historical bubz docs. <:
Also, a lot of people don't even know that Bubz & Tim were separated at one point!

I remember reading a few posts about it all on her tumblr which she had a while ago & quickly abandoned & deleted all the posts regarding her break-up with Tim & I was curious if they were still archived though. I managed to find her old posts.
Keep in mind this happened in 2010 & isn't recent, but it's some history fitting for the Bubz section.

So, in a nutshell, at one point while Bubz was on youtube, she started getting really buddy buddy with chonny & shimmy (other popular asian youtubers) & around July 2010, Bubz went to some Youtuber meet up & shared a room with them while they were there. Her friendship with Chonny is actually (imo) what started her bubbiosity channel, making comedy videos based on chonny's format which made him popular.
anyway.
Here are the vlogs from that event;
part 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uumVEjF2sNk
part 2 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcd22g4Zws
Chonny's vlogs - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=My9wvT7tyKE & https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=My9wvT7tyKE

Shortly after she made a tumblr & made some emo break-up posts around August 2010.
It's not clear EXACTLY why they broke-up, but considering the small gap of time between the youtube meet-up & their break-up, my thoughts are Tim was jealous of Bubz getting too close with Chonny &, similarly, I think bubz wanted to test the waters.

Here are the posts. She would have been 23 during this time (& types just like she did on her xanga when she was much younger, good grief)

1st August
Youtube
Youtube is probably one of the best things that happened to me.

But also something that took away the actual best thing that ever happened to me….

U & I shared the same dream during our teenage years.

Now that dream seems further and further.

I am now chasing my dreams

but I never realised it caused you to change your world for me.

I never wanted that to happen.

Knowing you feel lost hurts.

Knowing I’m the reason for you to feel lost hurts me more than words can describe.

I wish you would realise nothing actually changed.

I am still me.

1st August would be our 7th year anniversary.

I loved you before.

I love you now.

I’ll always love you.


4th August
</3
Sleeping with a broken heart knowing I broke yours.

I’m sorry for everything.

I messed up.

May you find Happiness with the girl who will be the luckiest girl in the World *smiles*


6th August
My last depressing post
You all see me as a happy and bubbly girl. I do tend to see life on the bright side and live everyday like its my last day on earth. But I’m human and I have feelings right? This is going to be my last post that will be depressing (at least try) and after this; I’m going to get back up and live on with life.

After what feels like a very long night mare, I have officially ended my relationship with my boyfriend of 7 years. I met him when I was 16 years old and we were here for each other throughout our teenage years. He was and still is everything I ever wanted. He made me smile like nobody ever could. He understood me better than I understood myself. I cherish our memories we shared together and I was the luckiest girl in the World to be able to be loved by him. I am STILL the luckiest girl in the World because we are able to be best friends still.

We came to Hong Kong leaving everything behind so we can work for a future together. Sometimes things happen in life. We question why it does. I still question this every night before I go to bed. But things happen for a reason and I believe God has plans for us all. He answered my prayers and now I am released from all the weight that has been on my shoulders.

Youtube was one of the best things that happened to me but it made me lose the most important person of my life. I have nobody to blame but myself. But now I know it happened because maybe he really was supposed to be in my life for these 7 years. With all my heart, I hope he will be able to find the perfect girl who he can love whole heartedly and grow old together.

Now this chapter of my life is over. I’m going to have to deal with it and move on with the next chapter of my life. I just want to thank all of you guys who have been leaving really supportive comments. I don’t know how to reply them tho >< anybody know how?

I’m taking my first step now.

Will you hold my hand?

Either way, I can get up myself.

Right now, my first priority isn’t myself anyway…… It’s him.

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If you are lucky enough to be in a loving relationship. Don’t let it slip away. Chase after it and hold it close to your heart.

Thank you for making me the happiest girl in the World for these 7 years <3


Bubz xx…


9th August
When Reality Hits You
I promised myself that my previous entry will be the last depressing one so I’ll try to make this one as non depressing as I can.

Yesterday my sister and I went shopping for some retail therapy… It was our chance to chat before she returns back to HK. It was one of those nice nice days but also one of the most saddest days I’ve had in Hong Kong. When I see how he had no life in his eyes; I just wanted to hug him n tell him everything is ok. He had to come to my dads apartment last nite to fix the TV. It reminded me our good times we had in STK. Built our first 1000 jigsaw puzzle, how he tried to cook me a european dinner cz I was homesick, how we watched tv together every night while eating at the place downstairs… Then watching him leave at midnight to go back home alone made my heart ache a little more. I wanted to go back with him… I wanted to keep him company… I wanted to reassure him… but all of these things will just make things worse.

Last night I misunderstood him and if it wasn’t the misunderstanding- he wouldn’t have broken out of the mould and told me how he really felt. I didnt need him to because I KNEW already but listening to it killed me…

I questioned myself last night, has it really come down to this? Reality hit me. It hit me that he reali is gone.

This guy would be the perfect husband

The amazing father of my children

The one who understands me most

The one who makes me laugh

Everything I’ll ever want and need.

But we want different things despite loving each other very much. I wish I loved him as much as he loved me; then things will be VERY different.

I can’t even bring myself to imagine when he leaves HK to return back to UK in October. We’ve spent so much time together and it will be so painful to imagine life without Tim here. He was the only family I had and his family taken me in as their own. But none the less- I really want him to be happy. He doesnt need to be in here anymore. He needs to be surrounded by his friends & family. He needs to go home so he can heal and get over me properly.

What about me? I probably will end up returning back to UK. We only came to hk hoping to make a future together…. only time can tell… Either way- I know I’ll be alright.

I have spent too long questioning myself on my actions. Well Ive made decisions already and I know i’ll have to just get with it and move on with life. Most of all; not drag those i care about but could hurt along. I really wanted to be the one he wil confide in…the one that will make his troubles disappear… but all of that is impossible. All I ever do is make them worse.

He always protected me from being cold, hungry, danger, unhappiness and hurt.

Now its time he protects himself and for me to do the protecting on my own. I feel relieved he has 3 ‘angels’ to look out for him. I know he will heal. I will too.

As we stand back to back, we will now walk in opposite directions…

Only praying and wishing each other Happiness and ‘to never live life with regrets’.

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10th August
Basic Instinct
to make sure you’re ok…


19th August
Acceptance
Alot has happened in the past 3 weeks…. Sometimes in life- u just gotta snap out of it and realise the world just won’t stop for you. You have to accept reality and move on. Life is not one big happy fairy tale. It can get really tough, harsh and suck but you have to keep moving because only the strong ones will survive. I’m looking out the balcony windows now. I can see the rain hitting off the glass, I can see the fast ripples in the sea and the gloomy weather. I’m going to be just fine.

As I type this blog in the living room, sheltered, warm and safe. I know I am very fortunate.

It’s never easy knowing you are the reason for someone to not be able to get up from bed. Knowing you caused somebody you care about to question their own future. Because of me…

But I just gotta have faith. There is nothin I can do anymore that will help him… friends and family may be there to guide him but end of the day- he needs to take the first step himself. I know he can do it =) Im not just saying this for the sake of it; I mean it. I have faith he will be just fine. I know God has plans for him…. this may only be the begining for him.

I’m just going to keep busy. =).

Going to do photoshoot for my new range of shirts tomorrow. Going to be a very busy week but I am looking forward to it. Yesterday I sat on the bus and I couldn’t I was wearing a shirt designed by myself that would be sold around the World. It still makes me shiver down my spine. I still don’t believe it… Feels like I’m stil dreaming..

Alot of times in life, we end up in places we never thought we would end up in. But this isn’t always a bad thing. It happens for a reason and alot of times; happens for the better. Sometimes it can postpone you for a while- but if it really matters u will continue on this path.

Wearing my new shirts ^_^.


19th August
When your own friends choose sides
I know he is suffering alot right now and is in alot of pain. It aches me just thinking about it… Not a day goes by that I don’t feel that sharp sting in my chest. It’s there. I just don’t talk about it.

I need a friend too…. I act ok because I force myself to be ok. It’s not because im cold hearted or just ‘moved on too soon’. I’m not stupid- I know exactly what is going on and how the situation is. I don’t need you to tell me what to do or what not to do.

Just because I am the type of person that likes to see the light in every situation and tries to block out unhappy feelings doesn’t mean I am heartless.

Disappointed in myself. Disappointed that I got upset with what you said. Although you said what you said harshly without thinking for my feelings too, I am grateful. So Thank you for being here for him and giving him strength when he needs it. With all my heart- thank you.


19th September
O_O
Alot of people were realli curious regarding my break up with my boyfriend… The reason I didn’t get into detail was because it’s personal. You guys are more than subscribers to me so I still told you guys about it. You guys really supported me yet gave me all the privacy I needed.

However- there are rumours floating around (also started from a youtube hater channel) that I got dumped. That is not true. Even if it is- its none of your business.

We wanted different things. Its something both of us couldn’t change.

I’m trying my best to move on. We got each others support. We still hang out and chill like we used to be. Everyday is beautiful. We both love each other very much and want the best for each other.

Why some people are so nosy and need to dig into ppls private lives to dish dirt is beyond me.

Thats all I need to say =_=

rock on =D


& not even 4 months later..

12th January
It’s forever.
They say after 7 years, people tend to evaluate their relationship.

I experienced the 7 year itch.

There was a lot of pain and heart ache…

But when you over come the “7 year itch”.

You realise it really is forever.

We’re stronger than ever.

Is there a guy like you on Earth? There is no one ^_^.

I love u Bubba ^.^ xx


reconciled!

Here's some of bubz past thoughts on being called spoiled too
12th January 2013
I am not spoilt.
Hong kong is SOOOo COLD lately! Holy!! Apparently it’s the coldest December in 11 years!!!! Last night before I fell asleep I was just thinking how lucky I am to be sheltered and warm. I said to Tim, “What about the beggars in the streets of Hong Kong?”

Then I woke up and saw on the news about these homeless men dying in the streets… It made me feel really sad. Made me wonder how these men ended up in the streets. Where is their family? What happened?

We really take life for granted sometimes. Life is so short and like glass- it can shatter in seconds. So you guys out there reading this random post- you are all very blessed and lucky. You guys are safe and sound in your homes =). Feel lucky.

Lately- I realised one thing.

“Good people can have as much haters as bad people. Why? Because there are lots of insecure people”.

Apparently I’ve had an eyelid operation

Apparently I’ve had a nose job.

Apparently I’m spoilt.

Apparently I’m a lesbian.

Apparently I died (lol?)

I don’t care when people comment on how i look, dress, etc.. But do not question my integrity. My parents worked very hard to make living standards comfortable for us. I worked when I was 12 years old. Yes it was for my parents and what? I was treated like any staff of the restaurant. I mopped, I swept the floor. I cleaned the dishes. I memorized all the code numbers of 100s of dishes. I waited tables. I helped prepare the food. I had to deal with responsibility of running a restaurant before I even learnt what responsibility meant. I could’ve done better on my grades due to work but I don’t regret anything. Looking back- I enjoyed it very much. I learnt so much helping out and i wouldn’t change it for anything. I’m not spoilt.

Everything I have now is earned by myself. I worked for it. I don’t have my parents to rely on. Ok- say even if i did? None of your business right?

My boyfriend works hard too. We are both partners and because he treated me a surprise holiday for my birthday- I’m spoilt? The surprise holiday was the sweetest thing anybody has done for me. But I would’ve been happy if he made me a sock bunny or even a DIY card. I honestly felt really bad that he forked out tickets for me. But he told me its ok, you can earn money again but there’s not always a chance to go on holidays since we both got work schedules. I’ve been with my boyfriend ever since I was 16 years old. What makes you guys think hes rich anyway?. Can’t a guy work super hard for a whole year and then go for a 4 day holiday as a break? Please don’t insult my integrity by accusing me as a money-hungry scrounger alright? If you know me- you will know that I never let anybody ‘treat’ me. I always pay for myself. Another reason is why I barely even accept ‘sponsors’ now but I won’t even go there today.

People talk badly of others to make themselves feel better otherwise there would be no reason to do it right?

Instead of focusing your time stepping on other people. You should spend more time reflecting worrying about your own life. Ask yourself if what you’re doing is even making a contribution to the World. Is it making a contribution to your own life. You still don’t see it yourself? *shrugs*.

Sorry to break it to you but People who actually make it are Do-ers and not Talk-ers.

I’m continuing to stride forward to reach my dreams (LOL so corny). I may fall and make crap loads of mistakes but at least I’m willing to try & learn.

So there you go. I was brought up comfortably by my family and very very grateful for my parents & grand parents hard work.

You cannot buy happiness with money. Happiness is free. Why throw it away eh? Unless misery is your form of happiness. Whatever suits you baby.

Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.

LOL again.

Pwnd.


These were the only things worth documenting from her Tumblr, it really wasn't something she kept updated.
If you want to browse the cached version, just go here
http://web.archive.org/web/201201251045 ... umblr.com/
& browse the archive (it's where I got everything from).

I was going to see if I could add anything from her old xanga too but it need to be upgraded or something to retrieve the posts, & it doesn't seem to be saved in the wayback site, unfortunately.

anyway, if I find more or you guys have more feel free to post.
This is mainly just for you new guys to read up on if you're bored haha.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby amuto_lover » Sun Jul 20, 2014 3:19 am

dat exaggeration! She must of been watching to many k dramas and anime's back then.

I hope bubz does take a look back on her old post especially the " I am not spoilt" post.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby Noko » Sun Jul 20, 2014 3:23 am

amuto_lover wrote:dat exaggeration! She must of been watching to many k dramas and anime's back then.

I hope bubz does take a look back on her old post especially the " I am not spoilt" post.


ikr, my personal favourite excerpt;
"I’m looking out the balcony windows now. I can see the rain hitting off the glass, I can see the fast ripples in the sea and the gloomy weather. I’m going to be just fine."

The fact she even made a post like that shows she doesn't even know the meaning of the word 'spoiled'. All the "hard work" she did is just the equivalent of any other person attending school & having a job.
She comes off as entitled even now.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby NotAZombie » Sun Jul 20, 2014 8:08 am

Thank you for compiling this into one post, Noko~

Is this just me or bubz kinda got her talking style from Shimmy and Chonny? And Chonny somewhat reminds me of Tim.

I really like how bubz looked like back there.
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Postby J'en ai marre » Sun Jul 20, 2014 8:24 am

Thanks for this Noko. Wow I did not remember that Bubz was already so bitchy about money back in the days... It's true that she wrote this like she was in a K drama, but I understand her sorrow. Being with someone for 7 years and (especially if it is your first relationship) and breaking up after all that time is difficult to deal with.

But at the same time, SHE probably did the mistake by sleeping in the same hotel room than these two guys, and that is a big no-no, even if you get on really well with your partner and that he trusts you.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby NotAZombie » Sun Jul 20, 2014 9:10 am

I just had a thought: Is this the reason why Tim has been an asshole to bubz? I don't recall Tim being such an ass in her earlier videos, or that is just because she didn't show enough footage of him back in those days.
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Postby halogirl » Sun Jul 20, 2014 9:32 am

@NotAZombie - you made a point! lol, maybe he is an ass towards her and goes out drinking and leaves her alone is him still resenting her for her time with shimmy and chonny. Although I have always wondered, why didn't tim go with and share a room with lindy? I mean since he probably worked from home back then (working for the bubzbeauty store) he could have easily gone with. Even though he isn't a youtuber, you'd think lindy would want her bf of 7 years to come with and experience that with her.

BUT then again, as stated in the above posts, she seemed like she was testing the waters and doing w/e she wanted so maybe tim wanted to go and she told him not to?

It does suck that it seems her friendships with them was compromised by this, since i don't recall her interacting with shimmy or chonny (over youtube or twitter like she did BEFORE this happened) after her and tim got back together

Just my imagination lol.

It kinda makes me feel old though, how much time has passed since then, a lot of her subscribers have probably forgotten that happened or don't even know.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby lolliesbunny » Sun Jul 20, 2014 11:03 am

I get annoyed when she whined about the break up for 4 posts then say so many people are curious by my breakup! FFS woman.


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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby halogirl » Sun Jul 20, 2014 2:02 pm

lolliesbunny wrote:I get annoyed when she whined about the break up for 4 posts then say so many people are curious by my breakup! FFS woman.


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LOL, I agree, if you make the choice to put your business out there like that, be prepared to deal with people being nosey and asking questions.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby Noko » Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:57 pm

NotAZombie wrote:Thank you for compiling this into one post, Noko~

Is this just me or bubz kinda got her talking style from Shimmy and Chonny? And Chonny somewhat reminds me of Tim.

I really like how bubz looked like back there.


no worries c:
I feel like this was during the time bubz was trying to seem like a little 'modest maiden' that would say vulgar things & be so unexpected & shocking! But I think she was just acting like she really is with them & yes, I'm sure she would try to say things like them to fit in more.

halogirl wrote:It does suck that it seems her friendships with them was compromised by this, since i don't recall her interacting with shimmy or chonny (over youtube or twitter like she did BEFORE this happened) after her and tim got back together


She definitely stopped palling around with them so much after they got back together.
I think around September 2010, she went on a holiday to australia (I think just to visit chonny, because she did visit him while she was there) & she also did an australia meet & greet which I was trying to find posts/video of but it's surprisingly hard to find.
I found this tweet though just to back up that it happened haha
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lolliesbunny wrote:I get annoyed when she whined about the break up for 4 posts then say so many people are curious by my breakup! FFS woman.


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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby hambo » Sun Jul 20, 2014 9:22 pm

I've always wondered would they have really got together if they lived in the same country and weren't 5 years apart (Chonny: 1991, Lindy: 1986). Now I wonder if Tim ever wonders the same. I never thought that maybe Tim drinks because of the whole Chonny fiasco, but NotAZombie what you said does make sense lol.

In those break up posts she said they wanted different things, maybe he wanted them to have normal jobs and now resents her for his lazy lifestyle with no job of his own like his friends other than occassionally helping his wife with her Youtube stuff? Though that one is all his own fault. He can easily have his own career separate from Bubz/Youtube, but he just chose the easy way out.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby bunnybutt420 » Mon Jul 21, 2014 4:36 am

On a 'message from Tim' on the Bubzbeauty website, Tim mentions the whole not having the same goals thing..

Moving to an entirely different country wasn’t easy for either of us as we left behind our family & friends to make it on our own. After grinding out a hard year in Hong Kong, the relationship between Lindy & I became distant as we both didn’t have the same goals anymore. Inevitably, we actually broke up for around half a year; during this time our friendship was truly tested. We both never gave up keeping in contact with each other, even though we went our separate ways. During this separation period, we both got to realise how much we meant to one another. Soon after we began seeing the same goals in life & started dating again =)


Link.. http://www.bubzbeauty.com/tim/261-a-mes ... m-tim.html
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby NotAZombie » Mon Jul 21, 2014 8:01 am

Maybe I'm just imagine things, but the more I think about it, the more likely Tim's drinking habit might have been caused by Chonny. It is like Tim passive aggressively paying back to bubz after marriage by drinking and allowing his friends(even one of their mutual lady friend once) to sleep over in their apartment, most likely without bubz's consent beforehand. It is like Tim thinking, "since you shared a room with Chonny before, then you shouldn't complain when I have my friends sleeping in my house." From my experience some guys can be extremely resentful over an incident, sometimes more than girls can ever do.

Maybe this is the reason why bubz suddenly got so attached to Tim, and when she got a opportunity to stay longer in US she seemed so reluctant and went on talked about other youtubers losing themselves etc. It could have been her own experience by losing herself into other guy, or other things. Hell she might have wanted to go but she knew Tim is important to her(even though he is an asshole now) and she probably didn't want Tim to think she is leaving him again for a "different goal". Chibi's surgery might be just part of a smaller reason for her to get back home.

Maybe I'm just over-analysing things, but I'd just get this off my chest.
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Postby ERMAHGERD~ » Mon Jul 28, 2014 2:58 pm

I'm honestly not bothered by it..somehow?

I thought they were all just goofing around and acting weird... that's all that I got from it.
And if Tim IS HOLDING GRUDGES... having this baby and getting married was the WORST possible thing to do...

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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby whatwut » Mon Aug 18, 2014 5:42 pm

They remind me of those couples that stay together just because they're comfortable with each other and are scared of being single. It would have been good for both of them to learn to be their own person without the other person and then gotten back together when the time was right.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby lalalanders » Sat Aug 30, 2014 7:25 pm

I wasn't that updated with her breakup, I was only vaguely aware of it at the time, but I was always under the impression that they broke up because Tim wanted to go back to UK or couldn't find a job in Hong Kong?
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby Noko » Sun Aug 31, 2014 2:26 am

lalalanders wrote:I wasn't that updated with her breakup, I was only vaguely aware of it at the time, but I was always under the impression that they broke up because Tim wanted to go back to UK or couldn't find a job in Hong Kong?


hmm I don't know for sure, I mean it's possible. But I think bubz is the one that broke up with Tim? So it makes me feel it was more something to do with her.
But yeah, I can only surmise from what I've read.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby MarlboroPrincess » Sat Sep 13, 2014 5:20 pm

After reading this (I wasn't watching her back then), I wonder if Tim sort of pushed getting pregnant on Bubz. I think it's almost crystal clear she did not want to have a baby, and even now it seems as if she's telling herself things just to get herself (and viewers) to believe it. I.E How happy she is with the baby now, etc. Perhaps Tim knew getting her knocked up would keep her around and too busy to worry with other guys (especially in their culture, although I could be very wrong about that, so correct me if I am).
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby tweed » Mon Sep 22, 2014 6:29 am

^ If that's the case, then holy shit Tim, calm your balls. I hope she manages to be actually happy with Isaac and get used to it. Having a kid just to make sure they stay together sounds like one of the worst ideas ever.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby elloello » Sat Nov 01, 2014 5:09 am

I don't think Tim goes out partying because he resents Lindy because of that one time. If he he resented her so much over that one incident then I don't think he would have wanted to get married or have a child with her. I think she lets him do what he wants because they're grown people and she trusts him and doesn't need to control what he does. I think they are sincerely happy and that she wanted to have his baby. They had been together since she was 16!! Maybe she just started having second thoughts and didn't know if she wanted marriage or children (she's said before). Once they were apart she probably realized how much she loved him and wanted to be with him. Surmising and assuming can be pretty unfair when we don't know everything.
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Re: Bubz & Tim breakup 2010 (old news for new members)

Postby Bigbad » Thu Nov 06, 2014 1:39 am

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