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Re: Cheesie

Post by Polarbear » Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:17 am

Is she living in SG now?

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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Wed Jan 20, 2016 3:18 am

From her latest ig photo, she's otw "home" (aka. flying off to Japan). As a Singaporean, I'd rather not have her living in SG.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by LemonTea » Fri Jan 22, 2016 6:57 pm

I find Cheesie to be so.. interesting. How can someone be so obsessed with another country and its culture? Literally all she talks about is how great Japan is, and everything is "better" in Japan. So annoying. I roll my eyes at every #cheesieinjapan related post.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Evil_robot » Sat Jan 23, 2016 4:15 am

LemonTea wrote:I find Cheesie to be so.. interesting. How can someone be so obsessed with another country and its culture? Literally all she talks about is how great Japan is, and everything is "better" in Japan. So annoying. I roll my eyes at every #cheesieinjapan related post.
I know for sure that there are koreaboos (obsessed with S.Korea) and such, so it is very possible. I think there is still a difference between liking, liking very much, obsessing and over obsessing. she wants to be someone she's not, clearly :D

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Polarbear » Fri Jan 29, 2016 4:43 am

I bumped into this girl's video on youtube because she was under the recommended list. When I saw her thumbnail, I thought she looks like cheesie. LOL! I was like is that her? I know it's not her but I don't know.. I feel she reminded me of cheesie.. her features wise. haha! Not sure why.


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Re: Cheesie

Post by overthereitsthere » Tue Mar 29, 2016 3:14 am

From Audrey's Dayre -

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Looks like they aren't friends anymore.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by shrek » Tue Mar 29, 2016 4:08 am

anything to do with cheesie leaving her husband's company?

tim probably didn't want audrey hanging out with cheesie since she isn't a nuffnang cash cow anymore.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Tue Mar 29, 2016 9:22 am

I'd guess it's qq. Cheesie has been getting closer to qq, while tim+aud seems okay with xx. And with qq and xx "falling out"... so maybe the another person aud was talking about is qq?

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Re: Cheesie

Post by luvey » Tue Mar 29, 2016 11:11 am

overthereitsthere wrote:From Audrey's Dayre -

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Looks like they aren't friends anymore.
if they just drifted apart...then they just drifted apart, it happens.
what raises an eyebrow is that it involves another person. that tells me it was more than just a friendship drifting apart.
i wonder if there could be so much dirt involved on both sides, that all are keeping quiet. cause if it had involved XX, she would have put the person on blast at this point.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by shrek » Wed Mar 30, 2016 5:49 am

i believe the person she means is cheesie. as in she feels its not nice to talk about cheesie without cheesie addressing the issue as well.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Fri Apr 01, 2016 1:13 am

Saw this comment from her blog:
I guess that’s what happens when you choose to have a glamorous life. Good for her to want to focus on being a real mom and stop having a maid. Just look at all her blogger friends in Malaysia and Singapore, Xiaxue, Fourfeetnine and Bongqiuqiu, all of them are spoilt rotten and have maids and guess what? They don’t even have real jobs. All fourfeetnine does is show off her rich husband and go on holidays with the maids, I bet she doesn’t even know how to be a mother because her maids do everything. Xiaxue even worse, all she does is sit in front of her computer and photoshop the crap out of her face while her son is having developmental problems unnoticed. I never agree with this maid thing and don’t understand why any mother would need one. These people are just spoilt.
Judging by how comments on her blogs need to be moderated, I'm rather "appalled" as to why did she approve of this comment. Esp since the commenter mentioned her "new BFF" QQ too... (I don't think appalled is the right word, but can't think of an apt one)

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Re: Cheesie

Post by skipper++ » Sun Apr 03, 2016 6:35 am

Didn't Cheesie and Audrey had an online store together at one point?! Maybe that caused the falling out?

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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Sun Apr 03, 2016 8:30 am

skipper++ wrote:Top
Don't think they fell out. Seems like they just drifted apart. The online business seemed to just die a natural death (they don't need the money anyway, both are lady bosses: aud - NN, cheesie - number 76).

I rmb aud visiting cheesie when junya was born, and cheesie also went for fighter's 1st birthday party. Afer that, they seemed to have drifted apart. Or maybe they fell out. But imo it's possible they just drifted apart after having their own kids.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by overthereitsthere » Tue Apr 05, 2016 3:42 am

june203 wrote:
skipper++ wrote:Top
Don't think they fell out. Seems like they just drifted apart. The online business seemed to just die a natural death (they don't need the money anyway, both are lady bosses: aud - NN, cheesie - number 76).

I rmb aud visiting cheesie when junya was born, and cheesie also went for fighter's 1st birthday party. Afer that, they seemed to have drifted apart. Or maybe they fell out. But imo it's possible they just drifted apart after having their own kids.
yeah. don't think it was anything very dramatic tbh, because they are both not as silly as xx and qq.

also, tim & audrey still get their hair done at number 76 which i find quite interesting.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by snowangel » Tue Apr 05, 2016 7:44 pm

but since they both stay in KL and were once so close, it seems weird that they can drift away so easily..

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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Tue Apr 05, 2016 11:54 pm

snowangel wrote:but since they both stay in KL and were once so close, it seems weird that they can drift away so easily..
Well, cheesie has been travelling between sg and jpn.. and I guess aud is becoming less of a "weeaboo", while cheesie is still "everything japanese ftw". :? I guess that's enough to make them drift apart.

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Post by Seijun » Wed Apr 06, 2016 6:48 am

^ Yep; and Cheesie spends a lot of time trying for the 'Perfect Japanese Housewife' shting, she probably thinks her Danna approves of only a few of her friends (especially the Japanese acquaintances) or whatevs...

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Navi » Wed Apr 06, 2016 9:55 pm

I think in some recent blog she said "our Japanese ways" or whatever referring to how her family is "Japanese" in how they live, as opposed to Malaysians who hire home help.... Except she truly is just a sad wannabe who thinks she can cosplay a culture while denouncing and rejecting her roots.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Lestat » Sun Apr 10, 2016 5:51 pm

http://cheeserland.com/2016/03/the-helper/
...two weeks ago, our helper has run away and I won’t be getting any help at least for the time being.
She ran away like a dog???
Although she didn’t technically “run away”, but it was treated as a runaway case and I had to make the police report and pay a hefty compound..
Initially I felt a little bad. I mean, she must have missed her family very much. She texted, “I need to take care of my son, he is so thin now. I hope you understand“.
But later I found out from one of her helper friends that the reason she chose not to return was because of boyfriend trouble. She was supposed to get married to a nice man when she finishes her contract (and I knew about it and agreed to let her go back if she wishes to), but she met another guy recently (!?! when?!) and now is in a love triangle drama.
Agreed to let her go?? do you own her??? do you have the right to agree?? how do you believe what the other maids said?? she didn't have time to meet a boyfriend because she was working? is that why you ask when?? Cant she leave her job anytime??
And honestly? A helper was one of the worst things we have ever brought into our family.

She was allowed a smart-phone from the beginning, had access to our internet 24 hours, and when she finishes her work, which is typically around 8pm, she can go back to her room and talk to her family and friends, and Skype with her son however much she likes. Everyday.
She was allowed wow. She has a room in your house and can use you wifi how kind of you!!! and can talk with family at night. wow.

Occasionally she was also allowed to meet her sister and friends for lunches and go for her agency’s maid gatherings. She went back to Philippines four times to see her family while working with us in a short year, once when her grandfather passed away, and three times when we had to go back to Japan for a few weeks.[/quote]
Some friends were shocked at how much freedom we gave her, and warned that we would surely regret it because they will just take advantage of your kindness and ask for more instead of appreciating it and giving the same back to you.
OMG you gave some freedom to a human being, HOW KIND.
“Never ever allow handphones. Don’t let them mix with other helpers.”


Don't let them mix??? WTF? cant hey have friends?? cant they chose their friends??
One day I accidentally found out that she has been buying her own groceries without my knowledge. Sometimes I sent her out to buy groceries, and it must have been going on for a while. She would buy the family things, and then a separate grocery for herself and hid it in her room thinking that I wouldn’t notice.
If you agreed to allow her live in your house, you should know that she will need extra groceries, maybe personal things like period pads or aspirins or a little snack. Oh i forgot, she is your slave.
some of the cosmetics or outfits were things that I didn’t use anymore or probably don’t even remember having, and she must have thought that I get so much sponsored stuff all the time so it’s pretty much free stuff anyway, therefore it’s nothing wrong that she could take for her own use… I guess? But still, not having the courtesy to ask for permission was really disrespectful.

(By the way regarding this issue the danna was like “I guess she really really wanted them? Why don’t you just give her more stuff? Then she won’t take anymore.” Awesome logic.)
All my friends that had maids gave them clothes that they don't need anymore as well, make up, perfumes and even electronics that don't use anymore, since they come from poverty, and you have so much make up and thing that were given free shouldn't be difficult to be a little generous.
I used to think her husband was an idiot but I see he is actually a good hearted person.

One moment I wished she was gone, but then the next moment I looked at the clean house and fresh laundry, and I suddenly felt very thankful for her. What would I do without her? She was just doing her job! And I started to feel guilty for my own pettiness. I mean, she was considered a really good helper compared to many other scary stories I have heard.
And then the very next moment I was feeling real shit because I knew I couldn’t do without a helper at home and I couldn’t imagine a life without one. I mean, honestly?? I have not swept the floor for one year.
To be honest, I even feel a little ashamed that I have one. It made me feel less of a mother. Did I really need one? Am I less capable of other mothers who did it all by themselves? Am I just plain lazy????
And then I realized I have not really treated her as part of our family as I promised myself to. I tried real hard, trust me, I did. But I could not. She was completely an outsider in our house. One who could not fit into our family culture. A family member does not do sneaky things behind your back betting on luck that you will never find out. And on the other hand you don’t always be wary or distrustful towards a family member.
So long ago, I worked in a grocery store (only for two weeks) I did everything, cleaning, organize and work as a cashier, I was paid less than one U.S dollar an hour, and I was not allow to clean my hands at the toilet room and to drink water, so I started bringing my own bottled water and my boss, who was a young woman said I was stealing water every day. Every time she forgot where she left her keys or money she said I was stealing. REMANDS ME OF CHEESIE.
Plus, think of the differences between a human helper and a Robot Helper:

A Robot Helper will never wear your clothes without permission.
A Robot Helper will never peel half the prawns and secretly throw half away just because prawn peeling gets too troublesome.
A Robot Helper doesn’t put on full make up and take selfies in the toilet.
A Robot Helper will never compare with other Robot Helpers about their salary. BECAUSE THEY DON’T GET ANY.
---- HOW DARES MY SLAVE TO COMPARE HER SALARY TO OTHERS SLAVES, DOESN'T SHE KNOWS IS AN HONOR TO WORK WITH ME FOR PEANUTS.WTF
Which means, you don’t have to pay your Robot Helper salaries.
A Robot Helper will never request for things, and if it really does, you can always say no without worrying that you will hurt its feelings.
A Robot Helper doesn’t have relatives who die one after another so they can go back to their country to see them. Seriously, 真的有这么多亲戚给你死咩.
A Robot Helper doesn’t get PMS so YOU DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH YOUR ROBOT HELPER’S EMOTIONAL SHIT.
“Set your boundaries for the next one. Never bring her out. AND NO PHONE.”
WHO THE FUCK SUGGESTED THAT??? DON'T BRING HER OUT. WHAT THE FUCK??? Is she a DOG???



WOW, I think she really is rooted.

EMOTIONAL SHIT, A RELATIVE DYING???

What if one day her family business fails and ends up poor and cant make a living out of blogging any more. What if she had to work a job (not from home) and her son fells sick or even die and her employers are annoyed at her
EMOTIONAL SHIT

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Sarai » Sun Apr 10, 2016 7:47 pm

That reminds me of how some people treat their maids in the Middle East. I didn't even know she had a "helper". She always tries to paint the picture like she is this perfect "Japanese" mother to her son. God forbid she has to sweep her own damn floor :roll:
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Re: Cheesie

Post by june203 » Mon Apr 11, 2016 2:03 am

Sarai wrote:That reminds me of how some people treat their maids in the Middle East. I didn't even know she had a "helper". She always tries to paint the picture like she is this perfect "Japanese" mother to her son. God forbid she has to sweep her own damn floor :roll:
Yes, totally agree with you. She didn't mention her helper else it ruins the perfect image she is trying to portray.

Anyway on the topic of helpers, sad truth, but yes, this is how helpers are treated in SE Asia. Because of the low cost of employing a helper, it isn't uncommon for families to have at least one. At least.

The way these helpers are treated, are mainly due to some "horror stories" of other helpers. Like those that start getting a bf & getting pregnant after given a phone, or those that even bring their bf home to sleep in front of kids etc.. not condoning the employer's actions, but it's really mostly due to these stories + false sense of ownership (that they "own" the helpers) that leads to helpers being treated this way in SE Asia.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Evil_robot » Mon Apr 11, 2016 2:27 am

yes, this is how maids are treated in Japan.
I worked as a maid/Nanny in my country when I was a student. I worked with a small boy of some well-off family, I was never treated like that. I wasn't given clothes or anything, but I was given freedom and even free food there. huh

this blog post portrays Cheesie as a bad and LAZY mom, sorrynotsorry

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Post by Seijun » Mon Apr 11, 2016 4:32 am

Well I too, thought that she had no helper at home, what with portraying herself as the 'I'm following the Japanese way'!? Well, Japanese homemakers don't have helpers and that thing is so culturally ingrained into the Malaysian culture, when she supposedly rejects everything from there... Guess what Cheesie, you can't just declare Japan to be the best at (almost) everything, deny your own home country but still pick whatever suits you from both!

Anyway, I know the phrasing is horrendous (and yes, Cheesie manages to sound like an insensitive prick) but concerning the first part when she says her helper ran away and she had to pay a fine, isn't it how those immigration laws work in Malaysia? Like if a helper is placed into a family (then sent there with a specific visa), the family then becomes legally responsible for the helper and in [i']trouble'[/i] if they leave the family but not the country?

I'm genuinely curious here, I know nothing about immigration laws outside of the French ones...

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Re: Cheesie

Post by ShirleySher » Mon Apr 11, 2016 10:52 am

In her defense, that's really how "helper" (maid) are treated in Malaysia :( it's like a "rules” when hiring a maid.

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Re: Cheesie

Post by Lestat » Mon Apr 11, 2016 11:18 am

That is very not japanese of her. She will never be japanse.

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