Kalel - New Break Up, New Break Down (Part 34)

[toadette]

Wait... So she thinks she's more self aware than her peers because she doesn't have your typical conventional job to keep her occupied from exploring herself... But then says that being single (not occupying yourself with an SO) to find yourself is bull...

I definitely do have a soft spot for her. Maybe I'm being dense, but how did this video explain that she's depressed? Good on her for opening up this much, but it's titled "why I'm depressed and lonely" when the video is about her just opening up about her personality? She's depressed because of her ocpd, right? Just making sure because I'm dumb lol

[KeiraKitten]

Kalel saying she's not a narcissist is like Eugenia saying she's not anorexic. So delusional.

[applesandbananas]

Wait... So she thinks she's more self aware than her peers because she doesn't have your typical conventional job to keep her occupied from exploring herself... But then says that being single (not occupying yourself with an SO) to find yourself is bull...

I definitely do have a soft spot for her. Maybe I'm being dense, but how did this video explain that she's depressed? Good on her for opening up this much, but it's titled "why I'm depressed and lonely" when the video is about her just opening up about her personality? She's depressed because of her ocpd, right? Just making sure because I'm dumb lol

I wouldn't even call this her opening up about her personality, I would call this her trying to inform the world for the upteenth time "I am an enlightened human being so shut up and stop criticizing me!!"

She didn't offer up any new or surprising info hat she hasn't already said before. She's a dumbass and doesn't want to better herself.

[KeiraKitten]

Kalel can't ever admit she's wrong. She has to prove everyone wrong and enlighten them about everything. They are wrong; not her. Clearly a huge narcissist.

[gvofo]

I wish I would have screenshot it. Someone commented saying that she has narcissistic personality disorder with a lot of the symptoms of it and Kalel commented back calling them stupid or something saying that she hates herself and how could that be narcissistic or whatever and I think she deleted the comment. It had like 300 thumbs up the last time I checked.

I DID SAVE IT !


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she said in her long ass video half the population suffers from OCPD but her trustworthy source -wikipedia- says otherwise:

OCPD occurs in about 2–8% of the general population and 8–9% of psychiatric outpatients.The disorder occurs more often in men

its not like all her gibberish are scientific facts but Im too lazy to prove her wrong

Listen the that part of the video again, she does say 2% of the population not half.


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[alex.pyt]

Honestly I kinda understand her point of view now. I don't think she's playing the victim anymore, and being this clear since day 1 would've made things much easier for her. If that's how she really feels, I'm sorry that her boyfriends "hate" her.

[LoliFlour]

How ironic for her to say that society's ideas are not original, when literally all her ideas are copied straight from books and TV. Again, generalizing ideas as if they apply to everyone. Why doesn't she mentions how her ideas aren't original either? I mean she said this trying to sound philosophical and deep but it was such a weak argument that she didn't further explain. It's like when presidents give speeches and say "we will do this" but then don't explain how exactly. Then she applies it to herself by thinking "I'm not normal tho I'm smarter than your average 27 year old and I spend time alone so my ideas come from myself"
How can I give someone the credibility to teach me about how the world works when they just told me they are alone, depressed, and never leave the house?
I feel like if she was a good person she would've taken this as an opportunity to share her story but also "help" others who may be going through the same thing, learn from me type of thing, considering she has a following that literally bows down to everything she says. But instead, it was all me! me! now stop hating on me! This video is full of excuses. She was aware she would get hate, then proceeded to explain why you shouldn't hate her and why her ideas are above yours.

[FemaleDragon]

This video made me accept the fact that Kalel is just a moron. She doesn't take constructive criticism and refuses to acknowledge that opinions that aren't her own (or aren't praising her) aren't always hate. I thought I saw a breakthrough when she made that video in Italy and showed vulnerability, but this video is just her "regurgitating bullshit" about how in tune she is with society and her psyche. I thought this video would explain her breakup with Cyrus, but instead, she's using mental illness to justify (a difference than acknowledging and trying to heal) her shitty behavior and not being open to help (meds, advice from fans who care). I struggle with mental illness as well; It's hard, I have faults and I open up about what my experience is to others, but I don't act like a snotty know-it-all who is incapable of not hurting other people. It's like she's accepting she's a tragic villain, which is shit; learn from your experience and try to be a better person and reach out to friends and family. I'll be surprised if anyone in her class likes her; she's going to be annoying as hell.

P.S. I apologize for making quite a few edits on this.

[meowlizzz]

I wonder if her professor is going to call on her like, "Yes, Kristin?" and she's gonna be like "Oh, I actually go by Kalel"

Her classmates are gonna be like WTF.

[Alina88]

All I want is to hear her say once, just ONCE, is that she is grateful to Anthony for letting her keep the channel. The fact that she continues to try to convince everyone that she is some hardworking, self-made, independent woman who has NEVER taken money or assistance from anyone angers me so fucking much. The fact that she cannot, or will not, just admit for once in her life that she owes gratitude to another is one of the main reasons that she continues to disgust me. I just think she is an ugly, awful person on the inside, regardless of whatever mental disorders she is battling. OCPD doesn't make you a condescending, self-absorbed, ungrateful little bitch. That's all you honey. There are plenty of people in the world that are struggling with mental disorders that have good hearts and are kind people. She isn't one of them.

[LoliFlour]

someone commented on how the Myers Briggs test is BS but Kalel said:

For me personally, it is scary spot on. I took the test with my therapist and then as homework read a 150 page analysis of my type. I would say it was about 95% accurate for me and gave so much insight and relief. So even though it might not exactly be scientific literature, it's really helped a lot of people so it's importance shouldn't be dismissed.

lol.

[Iasomie]

I've got to disagree with a lot of the posts on here, especially when some of it has misheard information.

I definitely like her more after this video. It seems like she's using her alone time well and actually focusing on herself. I'm glad she's replying to a lot of the comments level-headed. But plenty of people come trying to tell her what she's doing right and wrong or who she is, which I find it understandable for her to respond with zero consideration or thought into what they have to say.

It makes sense that a lot of the projects she says falls through because she focuses on the small details and over thinks it.. but I think she's forgotten that a lot she's worked on she ends up finding too hard and giving up. Is that because of her standards? Or from wanting to do too much at once all at once to become who she wants to become? I could see the second one more likely. She comes across as lazy. Wanting to be someone and wanting to do everything at onice would be draining.. which could lead to being lazy.

Her comments on her relationship with Anthony was a joke, I think she does feel an ounce of guilt for it though.

I don't see her as being a narcissist. She has the traits of someone with OCPD. She mentioned how she was misdiagnosed as having OCD, which clearly doesn't fit her. OCPD definitely does though. Glad that she actually said she got diagnoses from a therapist, as that's been speculation. She also said she's looking for a new one which she'll definitely need while going into school again.

She said she's a pessimist but I don't see that all. She constantly daydreams! That isn't a trait of a pessimist.

She's obviously up her own ass and tried to play the smart card so other people don't question her. That was an annoying move to make, but the overall video was a good choice to post. She finally addressed all that her comments have been and that seems like less of a rant and more of a video of clarification.

She says how she's been trying to focus on friends and I think that's clear with the fact that she's been trying to reach out to Evelina and Shane, with a bit of success.

If she kept saying how she finds comfort by the test by feeling normal and not alone, rather than using it as a "it's all because of my INTJ" then I wouldn't be annoyed by it. But she is. Over and over.

Can't wait to see how she fucks it up after laying out who she wants to be but not who she is, though.

[meowlizzz]

I just think she is an ugly, awful person on the inside, regardless of whatever mental disorders she is battling. OCPD doesn't make you a condescending, self-absorbed, ungrateful little bitch. That's all you honey. There are plenty of people in the world that are struggling with mental disorders that have good hearts and are kind people. She isn't one of them.

Yup. Mental illness doesn't excuse what a terrible person she can be.

someone commented on how the Myers Briggs test is BS but Kalel said:

For me personally, it is scary spot on. I took the test with my therapist and then as homework read a 150 page analysis of my type. I would say it was about 95% accurate for me and gave so much insight and relief. So even though it might not exactly be scientific literature, it's really helped a lot of people so it's importance shouldn't be dismissed.

lol.

What in the fuck. She took the test with her therapist? No wonder that therapist didn't work for her. And then she read a 150 page analysis of her type? And she said she's not narcissistic. And what people is she talking about when she says "it's really helped a lot of people" ??? Even if it has, that doesn't make it less illegitimate.

[katiebitch]

DUDE IVE NEVER HEARD SOMEONE SO PRETENTIOUS IN MY LIFFFFFFFFFFFEEEEEEEE

[applesandbananas]

DUDE IVE NEVER HEARD SOMEONE SO PRETENTIOUS IN MY LIFFFFFFFFFFFEEEEEEEE

She is shoved SO far up her own asshole.

Man, I know none of them will but I really wish Anthony, Alec or Cyrus would respond to this video and drag her ass. We all know all of this shit isn't true. Hell, she does too, she's just too pathetic to admit any of it. Honestly, she spent most of the time just complimenting herself rather than actually acknowledging any flaws.

[0222]

Haven't watched it yet because I can't manifest the energy. I want to though.

But people think she has a soothing voice? How could anyone find her grating dumb LA girl vocal fry soothing? Maybe if you grew up on the bayou and are used to hearing toads croaking all night long.........

[applesandbananas]

God I keep listening in tiny bits because she's such a dumbass but she literally just said she dislikes most people because she thinks most people are dumber than her and don't "mentally challenge her". Are you kidding? Kalel, you're dumber than most people you're age. Like, way dumber. Jfc.

[Chimpanzeee]

Kalel isnt a dumb girl but she overestimates her own intelligence. The way she puts herself on a pedestal and claims she has more self awareness than other 28 year olds is infuriating... like someone pointed out, how can she even compare herself to others when she barely ventures out of her apartment to talk to other people? She definitely has a disorder of some kind, whether OCPD or narcissistic personality disorder (highly likely).. I think she's making it a grand announcement so people will pardon her for her lack of interest in friendships, failed romantic relationships, and failure to produce anything productive in her life.

One thing she mentioned that I think is so key is that not having a proper job/spending her life at home alone is what is "feeding the beast" and making her anti-social and crippling perfectionism worse. I think absolutely this is a massive contributing factor. Because she's been so lucky to have the income from such a lazy job, she's never had to FORCE herself to do more with her life. Most people don't have the luxury of starting and stopping multiple project while mulling over philosophical books.. most people don't find their true passion and love every second of the journey.. people learn how to work hard and get through the hard times because thats whats necessary to be successful in life.

I do however think people are too hard on her sometimes... just my opinion: she is good to her cats, she genuinely does care for animals (even if she's a bit naive at times), she stays pretty true to being a vegan (more than most).. she's definitely straight in my eyes, that post with evelina was just meant to look sensitive and intimate for effect. And honestly, I don't hate on her for keeping WULAS. People beat her up for that but the reality is Anthony would never keep that channel up himself or even have instigated its launch because he was always so busy with SMOSH.. Kalel had said before she was the one who uploaded and edited the content and they took half each of the profits. With termination of their relationship, that was the only channel Kalel managed and Anthony clearly wouldn't have done anything with it.. yeah it worked in her favour but I don't think her keeping it was totally unreasonable nor some sick plot of hers to get money. It was just fortunate circumstances

[Guest]

- the way she talks about herself like a doctor who discusses how his patient acts, it seems so unpersonal. and how she sees her mistakes, but goes on and says: uuh i´m just that way, i can´t change

- so.... is she now not-friends with benefits with Cyrus? i mean, he came over to his ex (that he kind of hates, but understands, so no hate) just to watch GoT... right

- did she say somewhere that she is an alpha? i might be wrong, don´t want to watch it again but that would be interesting, if she thinks that she is an alpha and Cyrus is an alpha

- i find her new goal contradicting with her own behaviour. like she does not want to get help from a psychologist, but then she wants to bond with apes and study them -> kind of be the apes psychologist

[Guest]

omg just watched the video. this chick is WHACK and CRAZY. shes so not self aware my god!!!!!!

i am disgusted!

shes PSYCHO!!!

and lmao at her defending that shes not a goldigger. shes literally just reading wikipedia articles and thinks shes super smart. gurl get your phd in psychology and then come back and talk.