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Re: CTFxC / The Trippys Part 2

Post by GamerGirl1990 » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:39 am

Some of you guys really need to just chill the F out. You're really mad at Alli for getting food with her mom? Alli staying literally at Charles side 24/7 does nothing. In fact, that would just stress them both out even more. One of the most frustrating things is to see the person you love suffering and not be able to do a thing a bout it. Sometimes, people just need to step away from a situation and do something that allows them to escape for a few days/hours/ whatever. Charles has seizures. That's just something he has to live with at this point. I'm sure when you're all sick or going through something, you don't always want people constantly giving you their pity or babying you.

Spare me the "If that was me I'd stay with him or I'd cook him a nice dinner." You don't know what you would do until you're actually in that situation. Half of you are young and have never even been in a real relationship. Life is not always black and white. "I'm sick of Alli, I wish she wasn't on tour." Then if she leaves. "Alli is such a bitch for leaving Charles." Do you have any idea what it must feel like to see your husband, best friend, and business partner almost lose his life not long after you get married? C'mon people. Alli is NOT perfect but some of the things you guys post are just childish and reak of ignorant, 12 year old immaturity

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Post by Montymoo » Fri Sep 06, 2013 3:26 am

Your life can't just stop when something like this happens - Sure the first time you take caution but this is now apart of Ally and Charles's life. They deal with it how THEY choose to deal with it, which probably takes into doctors opinions. If ally wants to go and get food with her Mom then she will go and get food. I'm very sure if Charles would have asked her not to go she would have not gone but what, are they never going to be apart from now on just because something may happen?

I agree with the post above me, the majority of you probably have never been in a real relationship and don't actually understand a situation like this nor how you would react. It's very easy to sit here and judge her for going out but this isn't a new thing, they have been dealing with this for a year and they out of everyone knows what is best.

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Re: CTFxC / The Trippys Part 2

Post by Happycupcake » Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:37 am

"You probably havent been in a real relationship"
Wauw.
Dont get me started on that one.

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Post by Happycupcake » Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:49 am

As someone who has been in a situation where someone you love came back out of the hospital awaiting a big surgery, you know Charles must have a lot of anxiety and thoughts , worries running through his head. When you are alone those thoughts are intensified a lot especially just coming home. Even if he says he isnt worried. Its not so much the eating out part honestly ots the fact that clearly Alli seems to run away at critical moments and i know she is there for him most of the time and she does a really good job because i know its so so hard.its just she sometimes choses the worst critical time to go out and do something for herself. even if it only comes across on camera like that.

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Post by bloopz » Fri Sep 06, 2013 5:08 am

Happycupcake wrote:As someone who has been in a situation where someone you love came back out of the hospital awaiting a big surgery, you know Charles must have a lot of anxiety and thoughts , worries running through his head. When you are alone those thoughts are intensified a lot especially just coming home. Even if he says he isnt worried. Its not so much the eating out part honestly ots the fact that clearly Alli seems to run away at critical moments and i know she is there for him most of the time and she does a really good job because i know its so so hard.its just she sometimes choses the worst critical time to go out and do something for herself. even if it only comes across on camera like that.
This this this.
Montymoo wrote:Your life can't just stop when something like this happens - Sure the first time you take caution but this is now apart of Ally and Charles's life. They deal with it how THEY choose to deal with it, which probably takes into doctors opinions. If ally wants to go and get food with her Mom then she will go and get food. I'm very sure if Charles would have asked her not to go she would have not gone but what, are they never going to be apart from now on just because something may happen?

I agree with the post above me, the majority of you probably have never been in a real relationship and don't actually understand a situation like this nor how you would react. It's very easy to sit here and judge her for going out but this isn't a new thing, they have been dealing with this for a year and they out of everyone knows what is best.
Alli*
Because having our own opinions on people who post their life every day & seeing Alli leave Charles less than 12 hrs after he got out of the hospital is SOO much worse than assuming that THE MAJORITY of us have never been in a "real" relationship & have never experienced anything to this degree simply because we believe she should have stayed with him after the 1st day. Logic!
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Post by Happycupcake » Fri Sep 06, 2013 5:25 am

And mind you the "EVEN IF IT ONLY COMES ACROSS ON CAMERA LIKE THAT"
Do you really think we have that much of a short tunnel vision and assume Alli is a horrible person because of one event. Because i never said so its just an opinion about THE TIMING.
If anything YOU are the one having a bad case of tunnel vision assuming the majority of us havent been in a "real relationhip" or even in a similar situation.
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Post by CASSXIES » Fri Sep 06, 2013 7:50 am

In Alli's defense... ( or maybe not, I don't know.) Charles happy place seems to be hanging out with his dogs alone and enjoying a night in. Not saying Alli couldn't have stayed with him, but they've been on tour for months and he probably didn't mind having a quiet night to himself.

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Post by GamerGirl1990 » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:22 am

You can think whatever you want about me. But this is my opinion. Judging from many of the posts I see on this site and many of them regarding Alli in this forum. It leads me to believe that most of the people who post (NOT everyone of course) are around 14 with little real life experience. Be upset if you want, but that's the impression that I get. Everyone is different and everyone handles life in a different way. Maybe Charles prefers to be alone when things like this happen. Maybe seeing Alli upset would just make him even more upset. I don't pretend to know them of their lives but I just think it's annoying when SOME people here say tings like "Alli is a bitch because she left Charles alone for an hour." He's not a puppy or toddler being left at home crying while his mom is out doing drugs, lol. You can have your own opinion just like I do. I'm just saying that I think people are sometimes too quick to jump to conclusions. Especially when they say Alli is handling it wrong and they would do it the right way. When you're younger, things seem black and white. When you get older you see things as shades of grey.

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Post by haylen » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:47 am

GamerGirl1990 wrote:You can think whatever you want about me. But this is my opinion. Judging from many of the posts I see on this site and many of them regarding Alli in this forum. It leads me to believe that most of the people who post (NOT everyone of course) are around 14 with little real life experience. Be upset if you want, but that's the impression that I get. Everyone is different and everyone handles life in a different way. Maybe Charles prefers to be alone when things like this happen. Maybe seeing Alli upset would just make him even more upset. I don't pretend to know them of their lives but I just think it's annoying when SOME people here say tings like "Alli is a bitch because she left Charles alone for an hour." He's not a puppy or toddler being left at home crying while his mom is out doing drugs, lol. You can have your own opinion just like I do. I'm just saying that I think people are sometimes too quick to jump to conclusions. Especially when they say Alli is handling it wrong and they would do it the right way. When you're younger, things seem black and white. When you get older you see things as shades of grey.
I think most of the angry posts above are in response to MontyMoo's at the top of this page, not your from the page before. You put things so well I totally agree. MontyMoo tried to elaborate on yours but did it in a poor manner.
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Post by Happycupcake » Fri Sep 06, 2013 9:04 am

I dont think anyone said "alli is a bitch because she left charles alone". And if so i apolagize in name of that person :p People just have different opinions about the timing i guess. can we move back on topic without bickering now that is cleared up :)

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Post by VogueForBreakfast » Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:30 pm

LOL :) i enjoyed the waxing scene in todays vlog.

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Post by BexxGilmour » Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:37 pm

VogueForBreakfast wrote:LOL :) i enjoyed the waxing scene in todays vlog.
It was quite funny. I really laughed when he leaned back and his hat fell off. I found it creepy that Lauren was there. I don't think she watched it all, maybe just one reaction (hopefully!).
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Post by herpderpin » Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:49 pm

I think a lot of people in here (myself included) have had a difficult time getting over Alli's actions after she left Charles for a month or so and continued to be dickish even after his seizure, leaving him alone basically right after they got home from the hospital to go and hang out at her mom's house. Alli basically can't function without her mom, she doesn't seem to know how to be an adult on her own. It's like they're freakishly co-dependent.
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Post by herpderpin » Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:54 pm

And I say this as someone who has been in a "real relationship" for years and who has taken care of a very close and incredibly sick relative while still trying to live a normal life. You DO go on, it's true, you can't stop your life be cause this happens. But Alli needs to learn how to stand on her own two feet and be there for her husband without her mom there 24/7/365. Unless Charles also wants her there in which case, all the power to them.
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Post by Izzybee » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:10 pm

But at a certain point in life, you realize that other people's relationships aren't really yours to critique. If Charles has a problem with it, he needs to tell her, or he needs to leave her. You butting into their personal business isn't going to do anything.
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Post by herpderpin » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:14 pm

I don't think anyone is butting in, just commenting on what they see.
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Post by Nergregga » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:55 pm

herpderpin wrote:I don't think anyone is butting in, just commenting on what they see.
Also in the grand scheme of things, vloggers have a minuscule audience if you compare it to traditional television. add to that the audience comes from all over the world. So, a lot of the time people might not really have anybody around them who likes the same youtube videos that they do.(Or, likesto gossip about the same ones) My point is that I really don't see how discussing youtubers private life is any different from discussing reality stars, Hollywood celebrities, or even peers private life. I know it might be a bit different that we do it online, but it's not that different. We all talk about each other, and people talk about us. To be honest I really don't care what people say or think about me, because I know I do the exact same thing to other people. As long as people don't harass me to my face, I'm fine with it. Alli probably gossips too. I think we all do it more, or less.

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Post by letmetellyou » Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:16 pm

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Post by blueyellowpink » Fri Sep 06, 2013 7:54 pm

If you think about it, Alli went straight from being a teenager living under Mommy's roof, to being a college student in a series relationship. Not saying there's anything wrong with it, but I don't think she ever had the time to develop on her own and is now dependent on her parents when things go wrong.

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Post by overtheolivetree » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:02 pm

Why were they waxing his chest as her parent's house? That seems so weird and uncomfortable. Like, you live down the street, couldn't you have gone home?

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Post by herpderpin » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:07 pm

I didn't even notice that they were at her parents place. It seems like it's gotten so out of control lately- has it been this bad since C&A bought their house near Alli's parents? I don't remember Lauren being around all the time until recently.
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Post by Sticky Gloss » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:09 pm

Montymoo wrote:the majority of you probably have never been in a real relationship and don't actually understand a situation like this nor how you would react.
Blanket statements, luls.

No, I'm an adult who has been in two serious adult relationships. As in living with, taking care of each other, in sickness and in health situations. As I am sure a lot of other people have been. Which is why a lot of us cannot stand the way Alli reacts when Charles has a seizure.

I have never once said that she didn't love Charles, or that she didn't take care of him. In fact I defended the way she acts, and how she runs off to her parents when things get rough. That is not the way an adult behaves. It is plain and simple that Alli is overly attached to her mother. To the point where (when its possible) she spends the majority of her day with her mother. I understand it is healthy to spend time with your parents, but to party with them? Daily? It just starts to get creepy. It might be normal to you, it might be normal to Alli - but that doesn't mean that everyone feels that way.

Perhaps you weren't around 3 months ago, pre-tour the last time Charles had a seizure. The weeks prior to that was horrible and Alli showed her true colors and there are obvious signs of it happening again.
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Post by ihateliars » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:12 pm

OhReallyNow wrote:...speaking of my husband making me sick, now he is returning all the TLC I gave him.

I have to wonder how Charles would treat Alli if the tables were turned.
he'd probably treat her like a princess!! Char definitely seems like the more of the mushy one and Alli is uptight and doesn't share her feelings!!

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Post by busybuyingbins » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:15 pm

Sticky Gloss wrote:
Perhaps you weren't around 3 months ago, pre-tour the last time Charles had a seizure. The weeks prior to that was horrible and Alli showed her true colors and there are obvious signs of it happening again.
wait, can you please explain what happened?
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Post by Presence » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:22 pm

herpderpin wrote:I think a lot of people in here (myself included) have had a difficult time getting over Alli's actions after she left Charles for a month or so and continued to be dickish even after his seizure, leaving him alone basically right after they got home from the hospital to go and hang out at her mom's house. Alli basically can't function without her mom, she doesn't seem to know how to be an adult on her own. It's like they're freakishly co-dependent.
Your post reminded me of something...

Has anyone ever noticed they both, but Charles especially, brings up childhood experiences a lot? He often makes references to things that remind him of things he enjoyed as a kid. With these two, it seems like they are both trying to hang on to their youth--Alli by clinging to her mom and her video games and Charles by often reminiscing about the past and behaving like a 13-year old boy.

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