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Lmfao..........
"Microaggressions are the everyday verbal, nonverbal, and environmental slights, snubs, or insults, whether intentional or unintentional, which communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative messages to target persons based solely upon their marginalized group membership." wow that google search was really hard
so difficult

I've said it already, but it's all between the lines. Subliminal messages, if you will. "Boys will be boys" is a classic example- moving blame off boys because...... they're boys? Like they can't be responsible for their actions and punished accordingly? It's in our media, our every day phrases, I spend my free time analyzing this stuff? Just because it's not right in front of your face with flashing neon lights surrounding it doesn't mean it's not there.

"It's rhetoric like yours that will lead to more rapes, not less, because you vilify people who try to give tips on how to prevent being a victim of sexual assault (because apparently that's blaming the victim) and think we should "teach men not to rape" as if MEN don't already it's wrong to rape someone, including the ones that rape."

So.... what are your tips to not be sexually assaulted? I'm curious, are they "Here's some self defense tips and some tools to help you if you are attacked" or "Literally do not go out at all. Whatsoever. Just stay in your house it's all you gotta do" or even perhaps.... "Don't dress yourselves how you wanna dress, you are not allowed to feel sexy and confident in your lower cut shirt because it makes you someone who's asking for it. Acceptability politics are cool kids."

And sorry I can't really be bothered writing you a thesis on all of this with 200 verified sources? Because I have better things to do with my life than spend two weeks educating someone with their fingers in their ears like a child.

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Although for anyone who may actually be interested on learning:

Boys & Rape Culture ; Teaching boys not to rape
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Male Entitlement & the 'Boys will be Boys' sentiment ;
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And i'll leave it there for now. Found a thesis that looked very interesting, and cam in full, but didn't have the time to read it.

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It just struck me how insane it is for JuniperJones to say that even the men who rape know that rape is wrong. If they know it's wrong then why is there INSANE amount of rape and sexual assault targeted towards women (and men) all over the world. If they know it's wrong why do they do it. I feel like JuniperJones looks at rape as something that can't be changed when it comes to men, that it is a bad thing and even rapists know it's bad, but that men won't ever change anyway, so let's put all of the blame and the responsibility to not be raped on women. Everything sits on women's shoulders, if men get caught then punish them sure, but never divert the attention to maybe looking at who commits the crime and how to fix the source problem?
Why do people blame victims? I feel it really is because people are actually terrified that at the end of the day, all the bad things CAN happen to them, they need to find something that the victim did wrong to then tell themselves that it wasn't just a random occurrence, that the victims did something wrong and to keep this false sense of security of it never happening to them. But you can be in a car accident which wasn't your fault and within moments you will never be able to walk again, you can have three locks on your door and get burgled, you can have a healthy lifestyle and get cancer, you can cover yourself as much as you want and be walking home from your first self-defense class and get raped. And by all means, let's teach all children self defense from an early age, but it doesn't have to be either/or, it should be both. No one is saying 'oh, be totally carefree, nothing bad will ever happen to you' and I truly don't think many people would think like that - man or a woman.
I haven't kept up with the movement, but in Nairobi they have 'Your Moment of Truth' programs, specifically designed to bring in boys to work to prevent rapes from their side, this is the next step, once we stop seeing rape from the standpoint of the victim doing all 100 things wrong for it to happen to them, we can start educating the other sex to be part of the solution. And the last I checked it seems to be making a difference. This is what, I personally, love about feminism and being in this equal rights movement, you don't assume that men are not capable of learning or helping or being rational adults who respect other men and women. We can empower women all we want, but women are not on this planet alone. It's great to forget stereotypes of women and empower us, but we can't then look down on men and assume they can't handle change or responsibility or a reevaluation of masculinity or respecting other people's bodies and independence.

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ElizabethMarks wrote:It just struck me how insane it is for JuniperJones to say that even the men who rape know that rape is wrong. If they know it's wrong then why is there INSANE amount of rape and sexual assault targeted towards women (and men) all over the world. If they know it's wrong why do they do it. I feel like JuniperJones looks at rape as something that can't be changed when it comes to men, that it is a bad thing and even rapists know it's bad, but that men won't ever change anyway, so let's put all of the blame and the responsibility to not be raped on women. Everything sits on women's shoulders, if men get caught then punish them sure, but never divert the attention to maybe looking at who commits the crime and how to fix the source problem?
Why do people blame victims? I feel it really is because people are actually terrified that at the end of the day, all the bad things CAN happen to them, they need to find something that the victim did wrong to then tell themselves that it wasn't just a random occurrence, that the victims did something wrong and to keep this false sense of security of it never happening to them. But you can be in a car accident which wasn't your fault and within moments you will never be able to walk again, you can have three locks on your door and get burgled, you can have a healthy lifestyle and get cancer, you can cover yourself as much as you want and be walking home from your first self-defense class and get raped. And by all means, let's teach all children self defense from an early age, but it doesn't have to be either/or, it should be both. No one is saying 'oh, be totally carefree, nothing bad will ever happen to you' and I truly don't think many people would think like that - man or a woman.
I haven't kept up with the movement, but in Nairobi they have 'Your Moment of Truth' programs, specifically designed to bring in boys to work to prevent rapes from their side, this is the next step, once we stop seeing rape from the standpoint of the victim doing all 100 things wrong for it to happen to them, we can start educating the other sex to be part of the solution. And the last I checked it seems to be making a difference. This is what, I personally, love about feminism and being in this equal rights movement, you don't assume that men are not capable of learning or helping or being rational adults who respect other men and women. We can empower women all we want, but women are not on this planet alone. It's great to forget stereotypes of women and empower us, but we can't then look down on men and assume they can't handle change or responsibility or a reevaluation of masculinity or respecting other people's bodies and independence.
I'm addressing this and then I'm done with this third wave first world feminist whine tasting class. The men who rape know rape is wrong because 9 times out of 10, that rapist tries to allude being caught, no? Does he/she proudly proclaim that they just raped someone? Sex is a consensual act between two (or more) people, so the act of rape involves removing the right of another human being to consent to sex. Do you really think most men don't know when the other person is saying no? Or when the other person is incapable of consenting to sex, i.e. drunken blackouts or drugged? Even the Stanford rape case... you know how he knew it was wrong? Because when he was caught, he ran the hell away!! Newsflash: most people who murder, rapes, steal, or harm someone already know it's wrong to do so... but they do it anyway.

I don't really care what you personally feel like my personal views are because you don't know me to make that judgment. I'll say this: your rhetoric puts the onus entirely on men as if A. The majority of men in society don't already know it's wrong to rape someone, B. That rape is a behavior that is even condoned by the majority of men, and C. As though WOMEN don't are incapable of rape. For all your talk about women being victims, women can also be perpetrators, so why not extend this rape lesson to ALL of society instead of just one.

Who is victim blaming??? Where in anything I said did I victim blame? I'm tired of that stupid strawman and it's useless. Guess what? If you give someone tips on how not get robbed, or how to defend themselves against bullies, you're not preemptively blaming them if they get robbed or they get beaten up by a bully. Telling women and men to watch their surroundings, not to accept drinks from strangers, watch their alcohol intake in public, or not to leave their drinks unattended is not blaming the victim!! And don't even with the "what were you wearing?" line because that is some straight out of TV nonsense that NO ONE with a brain would ask the victim of a sexual assault.

I don't like this new wave feminism. Feminism at its core beginning had a cause and a message that resonated truth because women were not equal to men. Now, I challenge you to tell me what right in the western world do men have that women don't? What is "mansplaining?" "Triggers?" Modern feminism vilifies men as wielders of the patriarchal tyranny, spewing their toxic masculinity all over the planet. I am an egalitarian... I do believe that men and women are equal, and don't hold one as being more superior than the other. Modern day feminism tries to paint women as both superior and inferior to men, whichever works for them at that moment. Feminism is by its name a movement geared towards women, not men. Modern day feminism cares more about feelings over fact. The Duke Lacrosse scandal? Football player Brian Banks lost 5 years of his life over a rape he did not commit, but where are feminists talking about that??? Because they don't care... because it doesn't fit the "listen and believe" narrative. Because skepticism and asking questions is automatically blaming the victim.

Enough of this. Sam Pepper may very well be a raping sociopathic asshole, but there is no evidence that he is anything other than a creepy jailbait loving pervert who lies more than he takes in oxygen.

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What the hell is this guy doing now? How is he earning a living????Is some stupid female supporting his useless ass? He hasn't been on YT in months. His tweets are stupid and only get like 100 likes or so. How is he still able to live in the US??? He probably stays in all day watching Jake Paul videos, mumbling to himself, "that could have been meeeeee!"

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I know Sam's not the most popular person around here, but he's been live streaming for the past few months and is honestly pretty entertaining. He and his friend Evan just started a 4 day stream where they're starting off in only their underwear and have to live strictly off of donations to the stream. They need to get money for clothes, food, shelter, and they're going to try to travel to another state. I know most of you probably aren't interested, but for those that are, he's Sam Pepper Live on youtube. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdSr4x ... S1aGnCUMTA

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