Look, I'm not accusing her of anything. I already said I believe her completely. All I was trying to do was explain that I thought her actions were stupid and I would never have expected her to do such a thing.Kit167 wrote:She said she felt safe with him and what was she supposed to do sit at home feeling depressed, she saw a chance at happiness and grabbed it, she'd wasted years with an abuser, as she said her past is still affecting her relationship with Jason, she's still dealing with the fallout from it.Person wrote:^^^ I just don't understand how she was able to trust a complete rando so easily after being abused by someone she knew/loved for years and years.
She did say the day after she and Jason met, she went to his hotel room, iirc. Obviously not every victim is the same, but based on what I've seen of others and Sammi's (alleged) social anxiety, I don't understand how she could be so bold and take such a tremendously stupid risk. Especially as this all happened so shortly after the breakup, before she started being counselled.
Also, sorry if I were wrong about her going to his bedroom. I think, at the time, a few people misinterpreted her words as meaning as such, and I was remembering that instead of what she actually said. Still don't agree with her fast move.
Idc how happy she is with Jason; he's not good for her, imo. She doesn't need someone who's going to encourage her dependency and she definitely doesn't need someone so aggressive. He was the one who revealed everything, and he did it shortly after the breakup, when I assume she didn't want people to know. If she doesn't want everyone talking about it now, she most likely didn't want people talking about it while it was still fresh.
She's happy with him 'cause she's comparing him to an abuser. Someone needs to tell her a man who doesn't abuse isn't necessarily a saint. Jason's pretty much as bad as Ricky, and one of the reasons I believe that is he thinks he's so much better solely because he's never abused Sammi. He uses the easily impressed doormat to massage his ego. It's disgusting.
After watching that video, I feel sorry for her and I don't doubt what she said. Buuuuut, that will never change how I feel about her actions post-breakup, her relationship with Jason, Jason himself, and her as a person.