I completely get everyone's opinion. I've been with/lived with {long story} my boyfriend for 3 years. After the one year, everyone's on top of us asking about marriage and kids. Yeh we want both {well I do lol, he's meh about marriage} but it grates on my nerves when people bug us about it.INdifferent wrote:^^ I'm very much guilty of that! Maybe it's just that people have different perspectives on it, for example I would never have dated a guy for longer than say 5 years without a ring on my finger - that's just me. On the other hand, my brother has been with his gf for 11 years this Aug, no talk of engagement although I hassle him about him all the time so yeah I suppose it's not fair to do that but it's also normal for people to wonder what the future holds.
I don't think I could go past the 5yr anniversary without something. But at least we live together.