Tati and James

[BigBerthaCarrotTop]

I personally think they won't get married because then she would have to pay his child support payments.

omg this is why i don't drink wine and read guru gossiper.... I don't know where I was going with that. I have zero knowledge on how child support works other than my husbands deadbeat dad figuring out how to skip out on making them. Back to lurking for me

So is this not true in CA? I am not sure either, but one of my girl friends warned me not to date someone with kids below the age of 18, because if we did end up getting married, I would be partly responsible for child support for those kids. Is this a myth? Just curious.

Step parents have NO LEGAL responsibility for their step children unless they file to become a legal guardian
My stepmom was never financially responsible for me, and her and my father married when I was 7. Only thing she did was put me on her insurance when it switched from my dad being responsible to her on covering the family, and it was not mandatory of her to include me.
(I also live in California so if it is true for me, it would be true for them)

[Guest]

I personally think they won't get married because then she would have to pay his child support payments.

omg this is why i don't drink wine and read guru gossiper.... I don't know where I was going with that. I have zero knowledge on how child support works other than my husbands deadbeat dad figuring out how to skip out on making them. Back to lurking for me

So is this not true in CA? I am not sure either, but one of my girl friends warned me not to date someone with kids below the age of 18, because if we did end up getting married, I would be partly responsible for child support for those kids. Is this a myth? Just curious.

Not true in Michigan (my friend is married a man w/ a child from a previous relationship), or I am sure any other State in the US, unless you file to legally adopt the partner's children of become legal guardian.

[careberr19]

James creeps me out. I always got the impression that HE was the one with real money (before her channel really took off). The way he looks at her and seems to really love her, he does not get the same reaction. She looks like shes grossed out whenever they kiss. I think he will take abuse to keep her and she will pretend to give a shit until she can maintain her lifestyle without him.

[GreatOdds88]

James creeps me out. I always got the impression that HE was the one with real money (before her channel really took off). The way he looks at her and seems to really love her, he does not get the same reaction. She looks like shes grossed out whenever they kiss. I think he will take abuse to keep her and she will pretend to give a shit until she can maintain her lifestyle without him.

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

[PassaSauz]

Sooo Why exactly haven't they gotten married yet? They are too old for the games.

[lillemy01]

Well are we now shure that they actually live together??

[wild4thenight]

why does he always look like a tomato in her videos? SO FREAKIN RED.

[oh,please]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.[/quote]

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

[lowkeylaurie]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

[BuhByeee]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

[BuhByeee]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

[Lovelocket]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

I think you're on target with the con artist theory. They seem less than sincere.


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[BuhByeee]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

I think you're on target with the con artist theory. They seem less than sincere.


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I have a degree in behavioral sciences. The way Tati talks and pronounces words is a dead give away she is "in character". I think she does have great reviews, but some of her vids are sponsored obviously -- and I can't tell they are until I check the description unlike with other youtubers. She's a great actor.

[IamaWitch]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

Hi there! Long time lurker here!

I have a question! Is this whole thing about getting married quickly after getting engaged an American thing?

Because I'm from a country in Europe, and here it's completely normal not to get married even years after getting engaged. My grandparents were engaged for 7 years before they got married and they were a loving and affectionate couple until my grandpa passed away. I know so many people who are engaged for 5+ years here and it's completely normal. Even 10 years. No one finds that weird.

It's even normal here NOT to get engaged. You talk about getting married, plan it and - well - get married.

When I get engaged I want to wait at least 2-3 years before I plan my wedding. It's a promise to get married, right? But why hurry? I would want everything to be perfect for me and my boyfriend and life happens so .. yeah .. AT LEAST 2-3 years!

So I'm just confused. Is that a cultural thing?

[Guest]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

Hi there! Long time lurker here!

I have a question! Is this whole thing about getting married quickly after getting engaged an American thing?

Because I'm from a country in Europe, and here it's completely normal not to get married even years after getting engaged. My grandparents were engaged for 7 years before they got married and they were a loving and affectionate couple until my grandpa passed away. I know so many people who are engaged for 5+ years here and it's completely normal. Even 10 years. No one finds that weird.

It's even normal here NOT to get engaged. You talk about getting married, plan it and - well - get married.

When I get engaged I want to wait at least 2-3 years before I plan my wedding. It's a promise to get married, right? But why hurry? I would want everything to be perfect for me and my boyfriend and life happens so .. yeah .. AT LEAST 2-3 years!

So I'm just confused. Is that a cultural thing?

Here in Canada, couples typically wait at least a year before the wedding. I would that it also depends on the age of the couple, for instance, if they want to have children.

[BuhByeee]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

Hi there! Long time lurker here!

I have a question! Is this whole thing about getting married quickly after getting engaged an American thing?

Because I'm from a country in Europe, and here it's completely normal not to get married even years after getting engaged. My grandparents were engaged for 7 years before they got married and they were a loving and affectionate couple until my grandpa passed away. I know so many people who are engaged for 5+ years here and it's completely normal. Even 10 years. No one finds that weird.

It's even normal here NOT to get engaged. You talk about getting married, plan it and - well - get married.

When I get engaged I want to wait at least 2-3 years before I plan my wedding. It's a promise to get married, right? But why hurry? I would want everything to be perfect for me and my boyfriend and life happens so .. yeah .. AT LEAST 2-3 years!

Im not exactly sure, its becoming more common to wait over a year nowadays but 7 years of engagement sounds TOO LONG!! In America, especially southern culture or traditional Northeastern culture, we get engaged for 6 months - 1 yr then get married!

So I'm just confused. Is that a cultural thing?

[lowkeylaurie]

James has multiple arrest records

Wait, what? since when?? For what???

[Lovelocket]

I feel sorry for him. I feel bad that he went to so much trouble proposing with all the girls involved and the video, and now he's the chump who overpaid for a ring that doesn't get him anything more than what he started with. It's a promise of marriage, and if marriage planning is too stressful for her, she should not be wearing it on her left hand. It just makes him look like a fool.

Don't feel bad for him. First of all, the diamond belonged to his mother. She used to go and snoop in his mother's jewelry box (can you believe this?) to see if it was still there. Then he did a huge promotional thing with the video, so the company that made the ring got PR and he didn't pay for it.

He is the one who has repeatedly called it off, not Tati.

I think I remember the last time they called it off it was either because James's mother passed away, or his best friend couldn't travel to their wedding. It is actually James that's been putting it off. After that they just kind of kept quiet about it and never mentioned it again. It is possible they eloped without telling anyone, because Tati did mention doing that, but I think the attention and views she'd get from filming about her wedding would be too much for her to pass on.

Couples who wait more than 6 months never get married. Look at Lady gaga and she swore the guy was her soul mate and still is

I think the REAL reason is beacause Tati wants something extravagant and won't marry until the wedding is over the top fancy but they dont have the funds for that yet. I have a big feeling both Tati and James are con artists. James has multiple arrest records and Tati mentions a lot how she grew up poor and hating herself (now she has a new persona). Sketchy!

Hi there! Long time lurker here!

I have a question! Is this whole thing about getting married quickly after getting engaged an American thing?

Because I'm from a country in Europe, and here it's completely normal not to get married even years after getting engaged. My grandparents were engaged for 7 years before they got married and they were a loving and affectionate couple until my grandpa passed away. I know so many people who are engaged for 5+ years here and it's completely normal. Even 10 years. No one finds that weird.

It's even normal here NOT to get engaged. You talk about getting married, plan it and - well - get married.

When I get engaged I want to wait at least 2-3 years before I plan my wedding. It's a promise to get married, right? But why hurry? I would want everything to be perfect for me and my boyfriend and life happens so .. yeah .. AT LEAST 2-3 years!

So I'm just confused. Is that a cultural thing?

In America ppl wait 6 months to a year. I got married after 5 months I didn't want to wait a year I just wanted to be married. Obviously for love and commitment but there are benefits to being married also. So I wouldn't imagine waiting that long unless you were unsure. It also depends on how you were brought up religiously. My family are conservative christians and wanted see me finally married after 4 years of dating lol.


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[Yetta]

I agree. 6 months to a year is the norm in the US. It's not uncommon for someone to be engaged a few years if they are in college and they are waiting to finish school, but other than that, most get married soon afterwards. I can't think of ANY other adults, over 30 (or over 40 in James case) that waits YEARS to get married, unless it is a matter of custody issues and moving to other states with kids from previous marriages. (I have a friend in Colorado, engaged to a man in Florida. Her ex is stopping her from leaving the state with their son, so the wedding is postponed while they work something out).

[lillemy01]

That is for me living in europe such a strange thing I have been engaged in over a Year now. I am pregnant now and we are going to wait after the baby is born and then after a couple of years we will get married